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Were they Born to Cheat?

Posted by admin on December 17th, 2009

With astrology we can analyze the birth chart and determine certain personality traits and characteristics of any individual, as well as the life path they will take. Certain transits in the birth chart, and at times, transiting planets, will determine the answer to the question, “Will He/She Cheat.”

While transits may determine the probability of a cheater, it is important to remember that while a person may have the transits to be a cheater, all individuals have control over their own brain and actions. Sometimes, these tendencies are curbed by conditioning, religious beliefs and maturity.

Having the transits of a cheater doesn’t mean you have to fulfill that role. But, in all probability, in this day and age, chances are strong that if an individual was born with ‘cheating’ transits they will cheat. Sometimes, events (transits) occur that cause a cheater to change their ways, and sometimes these events never occur and the person never changes. That is usually the case. Sometimes, an individual who is not ‘born to cheat,’ gets caught up in situations and makes a decision to stray from an established relationship. This is astrologically speaking, a horse of another color than a ‘born cheater.’

To know if your significant other/interest is a ‘born cheater,’ the transits in the birth chart must be carefully analyzed. There is no single transit for a cheater, there are probably millions. There are no simple generalizations. Often, cheaters are born with planets that represent divorce. This is usually represented by some type of hard aspect between Uranus, and Venus, or Mars and Venus. But, every divorced person is not a cheater. And, at times they are the victims of cheaters.

Cheating birth charts almost always contain a hard Neptune aspect. Neptune is the planet of illusion, delusion and confusion, and well as secrets and lies. A person with prominent Neptune aspects in their chart can soar to the highest of highs, touching the divine or they can sink to the lowest depths of human depravity. Sometimes, in a life time they do both.

Neptune represents both the preacher, the spiritual guru, and the drug addict and the prostitute. It’s a complex planet. But, it’s often there when cheating is involved. Neptune can create a cheater sometimes when it’s touching Venus, Mars or Mercury, especially from the seventh house of marriage. But, this is a generalization again, and this transit alone does not guarantee a cheater, and Neptune in the seventh house can also represent a person who is going to be cheated on. Another possibility of a cheater is someone who has a lot of Gemini or Sagittarius in their chart and likes to keep things interesting.

These individuals are often not satisfied with just one partner and like to experiment and have a distaste for that which becomes mundane. But again, having multiple planets in these signs alone does not guarantee multiple partners. Mars or Pluto in the eighth house is another sign of a person who loves sex.

These people are usually more interested in the erotic side of life than most. This depends upon many factors including what aspects Mars or Pluto in the eighth house is making. Society began to change in the late fifties/early sixties, and a generation was born with Neptune is Scorpio (1957-1970). These individuals in particular, are sometimes unclear about sexual boundaries.

Again, this is a generalization, and if you were born during these years it is absolutely no guarantee you will cheat! But, Scorpio is the natural ruler of the eighth house of shared/joint finances, change and transformation and sex. Sex often has a great fascination for these individuals and some will experience vague and uncertain states connected to emotional and sexual involvement with others. Sometimes it exerts a magnetic influence, although the real thing often does not meet expectations.

So, while there are a million fourteen transits that will help identify a cheater, the entire chart must come under scrutiny before making that accessment. And it all really comes down to what we want as individuals and what price they we willing to pay for it.

used with permission from Leslie Hale, Astrolger

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Nigerian Internet Dating Scams

Posted by admin on November 16th, 2009

The Nigerian Scammers are everywhere, they are in chat rooms, on Myspace, Facebook, tagged.com and almost every internet dating website. The way these con artists operate is under the guise of wanting a mature long term relationship, that they are just “looking for love”.  In truth though, all they are  looking for your MONEY.

The Nigerian relationship scammers are a big business, which is very lucrative, and is run just like a business. There is an office filled with people, who come to work to scam you out of your money. They operate with scripts, love letters and emails they have copied and pasted from other sources, fake documents to use as “proof” and use each other to answer the phone or call you when need be. Although they profess to be American and born in the US, they are invariabily working overseas in AFRICA (what a surprise) on construction projects that usually involve building churches or orphanages.

They start off with some sob story about either being a widower, or their wife left them for another man, usually their best friend or their boss. They usually say they have at least one child. They say all the right things, but you should be realistic and see that they are saying them ALL TOO SOON. This is a business, they dont want to waste MONTHS getting a payout from you, the longest is usually 4-5 weeks and then they start asking for money.  They claim to be businessmen travelling to Nigeria for work related issues, or simply say they work in Nigeria. (Some are getting smarter now and not even telling you it is Nigeria). They seem well educated, funny, caring, and pay you so much attention! Once they profess their love and you return it, they know they have you hooked and the money scam falls into place.

At this point they may either talk about needing money for plane tickets to come and see you (Of course they will pay you back, they have the money, and often will offer proof that they do have it) and one of the many excuses is because they cant cash their check in Nigeria, or the check is late, or it is coming any minute. Of course, when you go to the airport to pick them up, they never show, and while you are crying and upset, they either call and tell you they had missed the plane, there was a problem with their paperwork and werent allowed to leave the country, or a sudden illness/accident occured! Now they need MORE money, and the scam continues UNTIL you stop paying. You would think after getting some money from you they would be on to the next, which is wrong, their motto is “bleed them dry til they have nothing left”. I cannot tell you how many people have become victims to this scam, and have been left with not just a broken heart, but in financial ruin as well.

For more on Nigerian Internet Dating Scams please visit, The Dangers of Internet Dating.

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Signs They Are Interested in You!

Posted by admin on November 5th, 2009
You have found Mr. Or Miss “Right” or “the one”. Although you should be thrilled, you are upset because you have no idea if they are even interested in you at all! You begin to look for signs, or clues, as to whether or not this person is interested in you. A problem with that is there are no 100% certain signs, unless they are the most obvious ones, like asking you out right away. But even then, what does that prove?

Sure, they may be interested in you, but how, and for what? They could be interested in having a fling with you, they could be interested in you as a person, they could be interested in being just friends, or a booty call. You need to know not only are they interested in you, but what they are interested in you FOR.

Moving in on your personal space, like leaning in when you are talking or brushing their arm against yours are good signs they are interested, but is it more than just a sexual interest? You are interested in them, and you know what you are interested in them for. You may want a long term relationship with them, but they may just be attracted to you and want something physical. You need to know if the both of you share the same interest.

They may be interested in you but already in a relationship and have no intentions of ending it. They could be interested in you and do nothing about it. They could lose interest in you just as quickly as they got it. If they pay no attention to any other member of the opposite sex when you are around, many people would assume that they are really interested in only you. However, some people may be afraid to talk to you because they like and are interested in you, and can talk to other people more easily than they can talk to you. So that sign doesn’t always apply.

If they tell you jokes and show you their sense of humor and how funny they are, that could be a sign they are interested in you. It could also be that is just their personality and they act they way around everyone. What you need to find out is what the man or woman you are interested does, says, and how they act, think or feel. Then you will know what THEIR signs are that they are interested in you. Then you will be able to know for sure that they actually are interested in YOU.

You also need to know what they are interested in you for. Some people are looking for relationships, people to casually date, sexual partners, affairs, friends, and people to flirt with. You need to know what it is they are interested in getting from you. Our psychics know that each person is an individual, they don’t all think the same way, act the same way, and show interest or feelings the same way. Your psychic reading can look into this person and find out what they hope to get from you. What place in their lives they would like you to fit it. What they have to offer you, and what they hope to get from you. Instead of playing Sherlock Holmes and looking for clues why not get a private psychic reading to get all those clues and interpret them correctly and individually? Let us give you a psychic reading that will let you know if they are interested, what type of interest they have, and what they are going to do about it, if anything.
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Is He or She Too Controlling?

Posted by admin on November 4th, 2009
Does the man or woman in your life feel the need to take your decisions out of your hands? Do they constantly give you advice that you didn’t ask for and then get mad at you if you didn’t take it? Do they have to plan everything down to the minutest detail leaving no room for anything spontaneous? Do they feel the need to tell you (actually INSIST is more like it) how you should dress, eat and think? Do they want you to do things only after you have spoken to them first and gotten their approval? Do they get mad at you when you make decisions without consulting them first?

Does the man or woman in your life refuse to accept the word “no” from you and will go on and on and on until they break you down so you finally say yes? Are you no longer allowed to do anything by yourself? Has spending time alone with your friends and family become “not allowed”? Have they distanced themselves (and you) from YOUR family and YOUR friends but you can spend plenty of time with THEIR family and friends? Have they caused riffs between you and your friends and family?

Does it seem like no one in your life can get along with them or meet their approval? Have you been doing less and less of the things YOU like but doing more and more of what THEY like? Have they forgotten to even say please and thank you to you anymore? Do they give you the third degree about what YOU do when they arent around but give little or no details about what THEY do when they aren’t with you? Do they make you feel like part of a team when actually they are the boss?

All these are signs of a relationship where you are being controlled. People that love you do not control you. It’s as simple as that. Of course they will say they only want what is best for you and are the only one who really cares enough to look out for you. They make you feel as if you owe them thanks (and whatever else) for loving you THAT MUCH that they have taken over every aspect of your life. What they are really doing is insulting you.

You were able to live, be happy, have hobbies, likes and dislikes, form opinions, and establish relationships with friends and family before they came along. What they are saying to you is that you did EVERYTHING wrong before they showed up and now are going to fix it THEIR WAY. Eventually everyone being controlled realizes it isn’t based on love but power and insecurity, selfishness or perfectionism.

Can a controlling relationship be changed where each member of the couple has equal say? A psychic reading can show you if this is possible, and more. Your psychic advisor can give you the validation that you are being controlled, because many people don’t even know they are being controlled. Your psychic reading can help you find the steps to take to balance the control in your relationship so it all isn’t one-sided, but equal. Your psychic reading may also show that this relationship is not salvageable either. Only by getting your own personal psychic reading can you find out how to change your life from being under someones thumb to standing on your own two feet with all of your power back. The person trying to control you won’t change, what they are doing is working for them in the little world they are creating for the two of you. If you want to be an equal partner in your relationship some things are going to have to change, and your psychic advisor can show you what, and how.

The psychics from the Circle of Goddesses are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

Allow me to assist you in breaking through the barriers that hold you back from achieving your full potential in life, love, romance, career and business to put you on the right path to success and personal freedom.

I will guide you along your path and provide guidance to help you attain the desires of your heart in matters of love, life and career. I will assist you in finding balance in your spiritual, personal and professional life as well as attain peace of mind and the right path for your future.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Our psychic readers are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.

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When Will He Commit? Ask Us Now!!!!

Posted by admin on November 4th, 2009
When you first meet someone there is the hope that you will click, continue to spend time together, and enter in to a relationship. Being in a relationship to most people means that there is a commitment from both parties. But what if you have been with someone for a while and although you feel like you are in a relationship, no commitment has been forthcoming?

Sometimes women summon up the courage to ask their boyfriend when or if their relationship will ever become a committed one. Opening up a dialogue about commitment with the man in their life will either offer a satisfactory result or one that leaves them feeling disappointment. Your boyfriend (or any man in your life) could simply say they aren’t ready for a commitment and don’t know when or if they ever will be. So what are you supposed to do in a situation like that?  Hope for the best that some day the commitment fairy will bless you with the relationship you want? Should you wait and see if a commitment is forthcoming? What if you wait for a commitment and never get one? How long is a reasonable time to stick with a relationship without a commitment?

The answers vary for each couple. Some women may not be ready to commit themselves to the relationship yet either. They are more than willing to wait for a commitment from the man they are seeing (or their boyfriend) because they aren’t sure if they are ready to fully commit. They know that both members of a couple should be ready for a commitment at the same time.

What often happens between men and women though is that the woman IS committed to the relationship, and the man is not. The man KNOWS the woman is committed, because she let him know either verbally, or by her actions. (Or both) He didn’t have to offer her a commitment in order to get one from her. She committed to him without getting a commitment in return. That was her mistake and a mistake that many women make when it comes to commitment.

One of the reasons a man won’t commit and be in an exclusive relationship with you is because he already has a commitment from you. He knows you aren’t seeing, sleeping, or dating anyone else. So what does he get by giving you a commitment? Nothing, he already has everything he needs. He also doesn’t feel a sense of urgency to give you one because you have already been with him without a commitment and he feels you won’t end the relationship.

Can his frame of mind when it comes to commitment change? That is a question you can find the answer to with a psychic reading. Your psychic advisor can do a reading on the man in your life and find out if he ever will commit, when he will commit to you, and how to get him to commit to you if possible. Would you rather wait around for your man to commit to you, possible risking NEVER getting a commitment? Wouldn’t you rather know how or if you can speed the process of getting your commitment from him? Wouldn’t you like to know if your man is committed to this relationship he has with you?

Sometimes, without having given you a commitment per say, he is still behaving as if he did. He may not have committed to you but has no intention or desire to sleep with another woman, date another woman, or do anything with another woman because he is happy with YOU. He is just waiting til he feels ready to discuss commitment with you. Wouldn’t knowing that make your wait a lot easier? We can tell you what is going on inside that man (or woman) you loves heart and mind. We can tell you WHY he hasn’t committed to you, and what the holdup is. Even though you aren’t getting a commitment from him, why not make a commitment to yourself? Call one of our psychic advisors and get the help you need to get the commitment you want, or to find out the truth that you will never GET a commitment from this man and either accept that fact, or move on.

The psychics from the Circle of Goddesses are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

Allow me to assist you in breaking through the barriers that hold you back from achieving your full potential in life, love, romance, career and business to put you on the right path to success and personal freedom.

I will guide you along your path and provide guidance to help you attain the desires of your heart in matters of love, life and career. I will assist you in finding balance in your spiritual, personal and professional life as well as attain peace of mind and the right path for your future.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Our psychic readers are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.

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