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The world we live in is confusing and frustrating at times and there are many reasons to speak with a psychic to gain some clarity and insight into the situations leaving you uncertain and insecure. There are many types of psychics out there with different intuitive gifts and abilities. One of them is clairvoyant psychics.  A clairvoyant psychic is able to see things around you with extrasensory perception and intuition. A clairvoyant psychic reading can help you understand and gain clarity in situations and events of your life that are troubling you. You can get a reading from a clairvoyant psychic on area in your life where you need guidance.

You can get a clairvoyant psychic reading on any type of relationship issue. Your clairvoyant psychic will be able to help you see where your relationship is headed and how your relationship will unfold in the coming months. If you are having problems in your love relationship, you clairvoyant psychic reading will help you identify those trouble spots and shed light on what you can do to improve your relationship. During your reading, your clairvoyant psychic will be able to help you identify what blockages and obstacles are preventing you from having the relationship you so desire and deserve and provide the steps and guidance to get you there.

If you have recently, or not so recently, come through a relationship breakup, a clairvoyant psychic reading will let you know if there can be a reunion or if the relationship is really ended. If the breakup is not a permanent one, your clairvoyant psychic will be able to tell you what you can expect as your love interest returns to you and provide guidance on how you can create change in their behavior to ensure you stay together. If you are single and looking for that one person to share your life with, or even just a companion or activity partner, a clairvoyant psychic reading will give you direction on what steps you could be taking to attract that person into your life.

If you have been seeing someone who is already in a relationship with someone else, either married or a long term relationship, your clairvoyant psychic reading will present what you can expect from the one you are involved with. Your psychic will be able to tell you if they ever plan on leaving their existing relationship as well as what they would have to do to end it. Your clairvoyant psychic reading will reveal whether or not they are truly willing to leave their existing partner and what is really holding them there if they have made no effort to leave them.

In today’s economy many people are contacting clairvoyant psychics for a reading on their career, work and financial issues. A clairvoyant psychic will be able to tell you if you can expect a layoff or company reorganization. Your reading will reveal if you need to start looking for a new job before the shoe drops. Your clairvoyant psychic reading will also reveal if you are in the right career path and very often even tell you what the best type of job for you at this stage in your life might be. If you have been feeling dissatisfied with your current work, a clairvoyant psychic reading can put on the right path to finding the right career for you. Additionally, you will be able to know if you are in dire financial circumstances or if you will be able to stay balanced in this economy and survive unscathed. So many people have been calling clairvoyant psychics to find out if they will loose their homes or their cars, and the psychics at The Circle of Goddesses will be able to help you know the stability of your financial situation so you are not caught off guard.

In addition to answering questions about the earthly plane on which we live, a clairvoyant psychic will be expert at answering questions about spirit guides, past lives and the purpose of your current life. Many thing we are experiencing this lifetime, especially when it comes to blockages and obstacles that are preventing us from moving forward in love or career can often be tied to a past life. A clairvoyant psychic reading will help you see what those blockages are related to and perhaps why they have come forward into this lifetime. A clairvoyant psychic will help you heal those blockages and obstacles once and for all so that they are not carried into future lives. With the help of a clairvoyant psychic you will be able to live the life you were intended to live.

Do you know your spirit guide? Do you want to know who they are? Do you know the names of your spirit guides? A clairvoyant psychic reading will be able to connect you to your spirit guides. Our spirit guides are the ones who help guide us through many of life’s trials and tribulations. With the help of a clairvoyant psychic reading you will be able to connect with your spirit guide to see the best advice and guidance they have to give your. Do you feel stuck in a rut? Are you unhappy with your current life circumstances? A clairvoyant psychic reading will help you break past the barriers holding you back and perhaps help you identify a different path than the one you are currently on. A clairvoyant psychic will work with you and your soul during your reading to help you make the best life choices for you and for the evolution of your soul.

A clairvoyant psychic reading can reveal the best course of action for you to take concerning a specific situation you currently have in your life. Likewise, a clairvoyant psychic reading can determine what actions others around you will be taking concerning specific situations that concern both of you. A clairvoyant psychic reading can help you get out of a rut, and propel you forward instead of being stuck. It can help you to move on, or hang in there, depending on your situation. Think of a clairvoyant psychic reading as way to unlock the pathway to having deeper insight into your life and what is ahead of you.

A clairvoyant psychic reading can not make choices for you, but it can show you the options you have available to you. A clairvoyant psychic reading does not say what you must do or even what you should do. A good clairvoyant will tell you what options you have available to you, the choices you have and then the outcome of each of those choices. It is your responsibility to make your own decision based upon the information and details provided during your clairvoyant psychic reading.

A clairvoyant psychic reading should not be used the wrong way. If you are seeking the truth, a reading will give you that, but if you want someone to just tell you what you want to hear, you will end up dissatisfied. If you want the truth, find a reputable clairvoyant psychic for a personalized psychic reading but don’t get angry when they give you the answer you don’t like or don’t choose to believe. No one likes to be the bearer of bad news, even your friends and family may be afraid to give you their honest opinion or assessment of your situation, but a psychic is bound by ethics. It is not the job of a clairvoyant advisor to sugar coat anything for you but to gently reveal whatever comes out in your reading. Even though the truth might be difficult to hear, the psychic is ethically bound to deliver that truth so you can decide what you need to do.

A psychic does not decide what comes out in your reading, and cannot change or alter what comes out in your psychic tarot reading. In a perfect world, psychics would love to give only the best news to clients or give everyone the answers that they so desperately want to hear. That is simply not realistic. Not everyone is going to be happy with what they hear from their clairvoyant psychic reading. You may be in a situation where everything seems hopeless. Your relationship, career or finances may be in shambles, but a clairvoyant psychic reading can help. Your reading may offer you hope that things will be changing for the better, and can offer you the tools to make your situation better. A psychic reading can help you avoid problems that you didn’t even see coming, or help to rectify and problems that currently exist in all areas of your life.

There are many ways to have a clairvoyant psychic reading. The quickest and easiest way to have a clairvoyant psychic reading is by phone. There are many sites available in the online community offering clairvoyant psychic readings either online or on the phone. reading prices vary, so choose a reader wisely. Just because a clairvoyant is more expensive, does not necessarily mean they are a better psychic. You can find an accurate ethical clairvoyant psychic reading in almost any price range. Some readers will charge by the minute (at varying rates) and some charge a flat rate per reading.

A clairvoyant psychic reading can help you when you are at a crossroads and don’t know what path to choose. Wouldn’t it be better to get the guidance and insight that a psychic reading can offer you before you choose the wrong path or make a bad decision? We often look back on our lives and wish we chose a different way than we did. A clairvoyant psychic reading can help you before you go down the wrong road, so you have less regrets and make less mistakes. There are many different types of clairvoyant readings you can get, and it is important to pick which one is right for you.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Our psychic readers are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.

The psychics from the Circle of Goddesses are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

Allow me to assist you in breaking through the barriers that hold you back from achieving your full potential in life, love, romance, career and business to put you on the right path to success and personal freedom.

I will guide you along your path and provide guidance to help you attain the desires of your heart in matters of love, life and career. I will assist you in finding balance in your spiritual, personal and professional life as well as attain peace of mind and the right path for your future.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Our psychic readers are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.

All relationships are different.  They are as unique as the two individuals that define them.  Some couples are married, some have an open relationship, some are simply sexual partners with no strings attached, yet each is considered a relationship. Too many people overuse the term relationship to describe the status between themselves and the person they love. Time and again, frustrated clients ask:

• When are we going to be in a committed relationship?
• When will we take our relationship to the next level?

Our questions back to you are:

• If you wanted to be in a committed relationship, why aren’t you?
• Is your partner against committed relationships or not ready for one?
  
• Have you even discussed commitment with them?
• Are you waiting for the “commitment fairy” to fly down and grant you your wish?

The answers to these questions, and more, should be discussed while you are dating. Often we find the term “relationship” is used too loosely and quickly when people first start going out. When you first meet someone and start going out socially with them, you are dating. Period. The dating phase is there for a reason: to discover BEFORE you invest yourself emotionally and psychologically whether or not they are looking for the same things you are. Oscar Hammerstein nailed it in lyrics for his musical “The King and I”: “Getting to know you, getting to know all about you….”  It is during this important dating phase that you are getting to know someone to determine if they will be a good relationship choice for YOU.

Dating is the process of discovering if the person you are “dating” is relationship material. Use this time wisely, and honestly (in other words, don’t kid yourself) to see if this person really is a good prospect for what you are looking for relationship-wise. Now is the time to talk, listen, observe, learn and watch. Listen to what your partner says. Does it match their actions? Listen to what they say then let time and facts prove what they are saying to be truth. Make someone EARN your TRUST. Trust is not something to be given away freely, it should be earned, and if your partner is serious about growing the relationship with you, they will jump hurdles to ensure you trust them.

Be honest and open; let your partner know what you want out of life, relationships, love and sex. This is the time to express your needs and expectations as well as what factors would cause you to end the relationship. These important issues should be discussed during the dating phase, even more than you discuss favorite music, movies and restaurants. Obviously the first words on a first date should not be “Are you ready to get married?” but it should be more than acceptable to ask them what they are looking for.

Of course people can lie to you and they will, or they can “think” they are ready for a relationship when they are not. You will be much better off in the long haul if you find out what you need to know in the beginning. Ask the right questions in the early stages, such as:

• Are you looking for a relationship?
• What does being in a relationship mean to you?
  
• What do you expect out of a relationship, and what can someone expect out of YOU?
• When would you consider monogamy appropriate?
  
• How long would you need to be with someone before you would consider yourself in a relationship?
  
• How long would you need to date someone before you would consider being monogamous?
  
• What about your past relationships do you miss?
  
• What have you learned from your past relationships?
  
• What about your past relationships do you never want to go through again?

Obviously you won’t want to drill someone with all these questions in the first hour of meeting them, and probably not all on the first date, but these questions are more important than knowing where the person went to high school, their favorite song or color, or what kind of car they drive. These are the “road signs” of what to reasonably expect from them if you decide to take the relationship “journey” with them. Keep in mind while this person is sharing their thoughts on the subject, it is your opportunity to speak up to let THEM know what your feelings are so they know what to expect from YOU.

Often during the dating phase, things start to deteriorate. One or both parties will say “It was so good in the beginning; we must be going through a rough patch”.  Why does the rough patch sometimes seem to last longer than the good times? The answer is simply… because the first few months are always the best. Everyone is on their best behavior. As people become comfortable with each other, they let their guard down, and start acting more naturally. So the experience is what it is like to DATE that person for a few months, NOT what it WOULD be like to be in a relationship with them. Big difference.

Many people don’t know when it is time to bail and continue to hold on to the good times waiting for them to return. They don’t. They won’t. Accept it and move on. No one can maintain their “best behavior” for longer than several months. It is difficult and exhausting to maintain the façade. The masks crumble and the true personalities and behaviors are exposed… now THIS is the REAL person. This is who you will have the relationship with. It will never be the same as it was in the beginning. It is just not possible. Cut your losses and move on.

To really KNOW someone you should date regularly for about NINE MONTHS – yes NINE. It does not matter how much you talk on the phone until all hours of the morning, how great the sex is, how wonderful he makes you feel, how intense the connection is or whether both of your grandmothers have the exact same name and birthday… it still takes nine months. After all, that is how long it takes to make a baby, so why should a relationship with someone you want to spend the rest of your life with take any less? It shouldn’t.

Many people operate under the wrong assumption that because they have sex with someone it automatically advances them to relationship status. WRONG! It takes time and patience which unfortunately the majority of people are not willing to invest. In today’s world of instant gratification, largely a byproduct of the internet, many people are looking for “instant relationships”. Remember, there are NO INSTANT RELATIONSHIPS and if you find yourself following this wrong way of thinking, we guarantee it will ultimately bring frustration and heartache.

So many people have sex with someone in the early stages of the dating game and invariably find themselves wondering:

• Is s/he sleeping with anyone else?
  
• Are we exclusive?

The real question, however, is why are you asking yourself this question? You should have asked the person you slept with, during the DATING process…and definitely before sleeping with them.

When a couple has dated long enough – yep, that is NINE MONTHS folks – and decided to be exclusive, they are officially IN a relationship. But where is the relationship going? Will it stay exactly as it is…just an exclusive relationship? Will you co-habitate? Will there be an engagement followed by marriage?

Many people want the relationship to go in one direction but their partner is fine where it is. Now we have two people wanting two different things, each trying to convince the other their way is best. Well, ONE of you is going to LOSE. Now is the time to find out if the relationship is going somewhere, or nowhere. You need to determine if it is going where YOU want it to go and you need to find out NOW rather than waste any more of your precious time. If you want to stay with someone knowing they will never live with you, marry you, have children with you or be committed only to you – that is fine. It is YOUR choice. It is time you made that choice based on REALITY rather than making choices based on your FANTASIES of what could be.

Let us help guide you through the relationship phase so it ends up in the place you want it to be. Let us help you get out of a relationship that is never going to go your way. Isn’t it time you faced the truth?

The psychics from the Circle of Goddesses are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

Allow me to assist you in breaking through the barriers that hold you back from achieving your full potential in life, love, romance, career and business to put you on the right path to success and personal freedom.

I will guide you along your path and provide guidance to help you attain the desires of your heart in matters of love, life and career. I will assist you in finding balance in your spiritual, personal and professional life as well as attain peace of mind and the right path for your future.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Our psychic readers are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.

First and foremost, our psychic advisors are accurate. They are skilled professionals who adhere to a strict personal code of ethics and will always guide and advise you with the highest integrity and honesty.

Incorporating their intuition and clairvoyant abilities, using the Tarot as a tool to tap into higher consciousness, they deliver not only honest answers to your questions, but provide guidance, coaching, advice and counseling to help you fulfill the desires of your heart.

Please remember, it is easier for a psychic to read for you when you remain open. Please don’t close yourself off from the psychic, or play “stump the psychic” games. It is pointless, and it wastes your time (and money). Remember, the more vague the question, the more vague the answer. You don’t have to tell the psychic your life story, but make your questions simple and to the point, such as: Will my ex (insert name) return to me or are they gone for good?

Our psychic advisors will look into your situation and the feelings surrounding it and let you know if your ex is returning as well as whether or not they love you, if they will stay in love with you, how long the relationship will last, what troubles you can expect and how to avoid them.

We are often inundated with the for letter word… WHEN. Sometimes we are given a timeframe, sometimes we are not. Also consider that it is very difficult for any psychic to place a timeline on someone’s emotions as everyone processes emotions at their own individual pace. Rather than focusing on the timeframe, it is better to focus on the predicted outcome of your situation. Very often, situations must unfold and evolve according to ‘Divine Timing’ or the Universe’s time. In other words, God has it under control…have faith and let Him work it out.

An ethical psychic will not allow you to call them for every little thing that happens in your life. There are some situations that do not require a psychic reading. Sometimes you have to empower yourself to make decisions that come along in your life. A psychic should have integrity, encouraging you to grow and learn and empower you to “read” your own love partner. In some situations, unethical psychics will keep you stuck in unhealthy situations so you rely on them and psychic readings to keep you in a cycle of getting frequent readings. Our psychics will not do that to you.

There are many situations where a psychic takes on the role of enabler with a client encouraging them to stay in unhealthy situations or live in a fantasy world which never materializes. If this is you, our advisors will not work for you. We do not want to see anyone stay stuck in a hopeless situation, placing their life on hold for years at a time, because they are obsessed with a fantasy relationship that is just not there. Our advisors will encourage you to move on with your life, continue the growing process, learn from the failed relationship and prepare yourself for the new love or soul mate that will assuredly enter your life.

Do not call our psychics if you are looking for someone to cast spells, or provide the steps to perform your own spells. Our psychics not do it. We adhere to the rule of “cause and effect” and refuse to allow ourselves to be caught up in any form of negative karma. Our psychics will not do aura cleansings. Our psychics will not ask you to meditate with them on the phone while you pay. (Please read our psychic scam page for more information regarding psychic scams.) Our psychics will never tell you there is spell on you or your love interest. Our psychics will never offer to remove a spell for you. Our psychics will never tell you there is a curse on you. Our psychics will never tell you they will remove a curse for you. (Again, click here to read our psychic scams page for more information on psychic scams).

Our psychics will not waste your time or money and will assist you if you have been scammed. Unfortunately there is no love spell to bring your true love back to you. There is no reuniting of a lost love and any psychic claiming to do this is a fraud. It is a waste of your money and will provide ZERO results when it comes to love. It is impossible (and unethical) to try and control the mind of your love through any type of spell or mediation and our advisors will steer you clear of it. Period.

Our psychics are honest and only deal in reality. During your psychic reading, they will tell you what to expect, or not to expect, regarding you love partner. Sometimes our psychics can be blunt, although they will never be rude, in order for you to see the truth and reality of your situation. In adhering to our strict code of honesty, our psychics will only tell you what they see, not what you want or hope they will see during your psychic reading.

We don’t offer psychic email readings at this time, due to high on-call volumes. At present all psychic readings are done live, by phone.

Our professional and gifted psychic advisors will empower you to achieve your goals in love, career, family, and finance. If you are ready to empower yourself, and get the advice and guidance needed for all areas of your life, set an appointment by telephone, through the Click4Advisor service, to allow our skilled professional psychics to show you a fresh, unbiased glimpse into your situation.

Our psychics are currently at work on a seminar to enable each and every one of you to develop your own intuitive skills, assess people and their agendas with you, and show you how to read between the lines. Our seminar focuses on empowering you to become your own Goddess to take control of your own path on your journey through life.

The psychics from the Circle of Goddesses are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture icon below.

I will guide you along your path and provide guidance to help you attain the desires of your heart in matters of love, life and career. I will assist you in finding balance in your spiritual, personal and professional life as well as attain peace of mind and the right path for your future.

Marriage is not something to be taken lightly. When entering into a marriage contract there should be a lot of forethought, planning and discussion BETWEEN the people that are marrying, AFTER considerable time has been emotionally vested with both parties. We find that many callers believe that the ultimate goal of a relationship is marriage and to get there as quickly as possible. Just as there are no instant relationships, there are no quickie marriages either. It is a serious consideration. You are combining your lives and your assets and investing your emotions with another person ‘till death do you part’.  It is a way to enhance your relationship and deepen your commitment to each other, NOT fix  broken relationship.

During psychic readings we often get questions about marriage that, quite frankly, confuse the hell out of us. Here are some examples:

I keep running into this guy at school/the gym/McDonalds and I think he is really cute, do you think we will get married someday?

My girlfriend has cheated on me during our entire relationship, and I have given her an ultimatum to marry me or I am leaving her. Will she marry me?

My boyfriend of 3 years has drug and alcohol addictions, but I love him, and want to spend the rest of my life with him. Will we ever get married?

I just met a lady on the internet, and we have been instant messaging, texting, and talking on the phone for months talking about marriage. Is she the one?

Let’s start with example #1. Ok, the guy is cute, REALLY CUTE, but what are you even THINKING about marriage for when you know nothing ABOUT him? You have never even spoken to him! A better question would be “Will we ever go on a date?”. Start from the beginning, get to know the person, THEN ask us, after if you decide to get serious with this him. So often we are asked, “Could this lead to marriage?” at the very beginning and that is a very complex answer. It is your choice if you wish to marry someone, not ours. We can tell you if it would be a good marriage, but we cannot tell you who to marry, that is your free will. We can tell you if someone loves you, we can read feelings that are THERE, but 99% of us can’t say “Yeah the guy at the gym will fall madly in love with you.” Because if we tell you “yeah, he will fall madly in love with you,” and then YOU CHOOSE to call him 80 times a day, through your own free will you have sabotaged everything.

Now for example 2… So many times we are faced with situations such as this. The relationship is dysfunctional and completely out of control, yet a person believes if they MARRY the one they are asking us about, things will miraculously transform – like – POOF..but we are not your fairy godmothers.  Yes, things will change. For the worse. First and foremost, the cheating needs to be addressed. You need to find the answers to basic questions such as:

Why there was cheating?

Can the cheating be stopped?

Can the trust be recovered?

Can they have a healthy relationship?

Save yourself the trouble and ask about marriage when all of those questions are answered to your satisfaction because without doing so, a cheating girlfriend WILL BECOME a cheating wife.

Example 3 is more common than you think and unfortunately many people believe that their love can stop a person from addictive behavior. Guess what folks? It can’t. If a person is a true addict, NOTHING and NO ONE is more important than their addiction. If it is alcohol and they are a full-blown alcoholic, they love alcohol more than you. Until their addictive behavior is under control, the relationship is a recipe for disaster. Instead of that question, the real questions should be:

Will they overcome their addiction?

What can I do so I do not enable them anymore?

How do I remain strong in the process and not let them take me down with them?

These questions  we ARE able to answer so that you will be able to see the truth of your situation to determine the path you wish to take for your own happiness.

Example #4 is a frequently asked question now that internet dating is so popular and accepted. But you need to MEET on the internet, and DATE in real life. Text messages, phone conversations, and letters should not replace DATES. You can’t have a relationship by text message, it is just not feasible. You have got to spend time with the person, FACE TO FACE, to see if you are compatible. In this scenario, better questions would be:

Does this person really want the same type of relationship I want?

Are they talking with or pursuing other online candidates?

Will distance be an issue?

Are they just looking for sex?

If you have a dysfunctional relationship, you will have a dysfunctional marriage. It is that simple. How many couples do you know who had turbulent dating situations who ended up marrying anyway? Of course their marriage will be turbulent as well! The problems need to be addressed BEFORE the marriage, or it only complicates the issues and makes them more volatile.

We realize so many of you out there want to be married, and we want you to be HAPPILY married. Allow us to guide your current relationship/marriage back on track so you can have the relationship and marriage you have always wanted – one that makes you happy!

Most people try to abide by the golden rule, where we do unto others and we would have them do unto us. We make an attempt to be kind, giving, and compassionate, treating people the way they want to be treated. Hoping they will do the same. Unfortunately, being a nice person will not ensure that others do not treat us as a doormat. They will manipulate and take advantage of if they can. But it is because we allow it, we allow others to treat us poorly because in truth that is how we see ourselves. So, when we see ourselves as unworthy or unloveable, that is exactly how others will see us – and treat us.

By defining our relationships we also define ourselves, and how we are treated in those relationships. Have you ever said to yourself  “I treat ___ so great but they treat me horribly”. Our question to you is, Why in the hell are you bothering to be so great to ____? Why do you feel the need to be kind to those who treat you horribly? Why do you let them get away with it? Most of the time the answers we hear are “Because I am a nice person, and I like to treat everyone nice and with respect”. Oh yeah? Well what about YOURSELF?? What about your self-respect? When did that go out the window?

The nicer you are to yourself, the more you have to give to others, and with the niceness you receive in return, the more positive energy you have to give!  It all starts and stops with YOU.

It’s time to examine the relationships in your life and see what they say about YOU.

Are your kids out of control and treating you disrespectfully? If they are, then YOU are not in control of your kids and are disrespected. Do you want to define yourself that way?

Is your love relationship one where your needs are never met but you are constantly giving and giving and giving? Then you would have to define yourself once again as someone who is not appreciated, and giving to the wrong person.

Is your boss or superior constantly criticizing your work and letting other people slide, and promoting people that don’t deserve it when you do? You may define yourself as a hard worker, but your boss doesn’t. It is time to change how you define yourself and how others see you.

We are not telling you to treat people badly, that is NOT the message here. What we want you to learn is how to treat yourself better, and how to get others to treat you better as well. Nothing wrong with that, is there?

Call us today so we can help you redefine your life, your relationships, and your self-image and stop being the doormat. Let us help you find and redefine your self-respect.