The Circle of Goddesses

Warrior to Goddess: How to Transform the Feminine
By Suzanna Kennedy

There are many types of women in our society, but the one that cries out for the healing the loudest is the Wounded Female Warrior. You long to transform yourself into the Goddess, even though you might not use those words to describe your longing.

Who is the Wounded Warrior?
The Wounded Warrior is powerful, independent, self- reliant and successful — because you have to be. Yet, you resent all of the responsibility and obligation that goes with your role. You are the only one around who can get things done, and get things done fast enough and perfectly enough.

You are bitter (at least inwardly) toward men, who you believe get all the breaks, but do little of the real work. You see men as the weaker sex, responding emotionally and acting illogically – when they act at all. You muse that men are only good for one thing – moving furniture. Well, two things — maybe.

Long ago, you let go of the fantasy of a knight in shining armor or Prince Charming. You are bitter, angry and sometimes even cutting in your dealings with these inferior male beings. You consciously or passive-aggressively seek revenge against the male transgressors in this patriarchal society.

You respect other Warriors, yet have no tolerance for “weaker” females who don’t carry the Warrior’s sword. You are or were a good wife and good a mother, protecting and providing for you family. Yet you express even these roles through the stance of a warrior.

You are tired of fighting. You displayed your battle wounds proudly in the past, but now that you grow bored with conquest. Your armor is heavy and you long to remove it for good. You long for the Goddess within you; yet believe you couldn’t survive without your Warrior’s sword. Let me introduce you to — the power of the Goddess.

Who is the Goddess?
The Goddess is quite simply — the embodiment of the Divine in a female body. She is discerning and acts with integrity. She has a core of inner peace that is unshakable. The Goddess radiates an energy that is so powerfully beautiful, loving and soft, that others are drawn to her like a magnet.

She may have been a Wounded Warrior at one time, but she has healed her wounds. She has released the anger, pain, fear, guilt and judgment. She has let go of feelings of betrayal and abandonment. She has replaced those lower-vibrational emotions with compassion and joy. She has transformed her limiting beliefs, attitudes, and thought patterns into a loving allowance for all to be as they are. She has no need to change anybody, for she sees the Divine in all beings. She understands that any attack is simply a demonstration of fear. She remembers fear, and yet knows how to neutralize it with her unlimited flow of love.

The Wounded Warrior and the Goddess — two powerful female archetypes. One tired and wounded; one radiant and healed. How did the Warrior get wounded? And how can she transform herself into the Goddess? To answer these questions, you must first understand how energy moves in humans.

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So many women wonder if their current relationship will change. They wait patiently (and are now impatient) to see if things will get better. They are waiting around to see if their boyfriend or husband will magically change into the man they first fell in love with, or at least a man that no longer drives her crazy.

The questions you really need answers to are as follows:

1) What created these changes in the first place?
2) Do you have any responsibility in those changes occurring?
3) Do you need to make any changes as well? What is it you need to do?
4) Would you be willing to make changes if you have to? Can you make those changes?
5) Do you feel that change may no longer be possible? How can you get hope back, if there is any?
6) Do you feel he (your boyfriend or husband) has all the power in your relationship and you have none? How can you get some power back?
7) Are you having the same arguments all the time? What will it take to get those issues solved?
8  Are you the best thing that has ever happened to him yet he is, at times, your worst nightmare?
9) Are you frustrated by what could be between you and your boyfriend or husband and feel it is such a shame that he is ruining everything?
10) Are you enabling him NOT to change?

There are reasons why people change. They are the catalyst that brings about change. What reason does your boyfriend or husband have to change? If they are happy, and you are not, don’t expect them to make changes. Change is HARD. We usually only do it if we have to. Does he have to? Or will you just keep being miserable while he is the happy dictator in your relationship?

Psychics Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are prepared to help you answer those questions, and to guide you along the path towards change. Stop staying stuck where you are. It will only get worse. Find out with a psychic love reading if your relationship will change, can change, and how to bring about POSITIVE, not NEGATIVE change. You have more power than you think, let psychics Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah empower you to take control of your relationship and get it back on track.

Some relationships will not bend to change, but will break instead. Should you be waiting for your dream to come true, that he will make those changes and the two of you will ride off into the sunset? What if this change is never going to happen? Don’t you want to know before you waste more of your time? Psychics Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah won’t sugarcoat things. They will tell you like it is, good or bad. Keep in mind, when we tell our female clients to make changes to make the men in their life change, they often resist us, or say they can’t change. And guess what? Their relationship does not change, things only go from bad to worse. Is that what you want? Are you ready for the change you say you want so bad?

A psychic love reading, relationship reading or soulmate reading with Sophia Elise or Lady Sarah can really get your relationship back on track if possible and they will able to give you the guidance you need to make it so or the courage you need to move on.

This month’s full moon occurs on Saturday, January 30, 2010 at 1;18 AM, EST at 10 degrees of Leo. Leo is the natural ruler of the fifth house of children, friends and love affairs, so it is within these areas in a general sense, we will experience much of the full moon energy. Leo is the sign of the showman (or woman) and the energy is dramatic and intense. It is time to experience the child within yourself! Just don’t resort to childish actions or manipulations, and be aware that you could experience these types of behavior from others’ around you during the peak hours of this full moon.

Full moon energy starts to occur days before the full moon becomes exact, and most astrologers use 3-4 days before and after in terms of timing for the events that will play out. On Wednesday, January 27, as we are coming into the full moon, Venus, the planet of love and money will oppose Mars at at 11 degrees of Aquarius.

This transit will involve shifts in the financial markets, and men and women may have opposing viewpoints. As a matter of fact, it may represent a clash between the two sexes. And speaking of sex, sexual energies may be heightened, but the energy is purely sexual in nature, as opposed to warm and loving. The attraction may be there, but it is up to you which way to direct the energy, and misunderstandings can occur on a number of fronts, especially in the realms of love and money.

Thursday, January 28, the Sun opposes Mars, creating an atmosphere prone to agitation, ego’s out of control, and the potential for accidents, even violence on the world stage. Mars can make you feel that it is important to express your feelings, especially angry feelings. The best way that I have found to deal with Mars is to let the energy pass; let a few hours or days go by and see how the difference of a day changes things. Usually the urge to express yourself at all costs changes, and the things that seemed important to say, often are not– given 24 hours. No matter how you cut the pie, this volatile Mars energy is coming in on top of the full moon creating tension and agitation that must be acknowledged one way or another.

As the full moon is at 10 degrees of Leo, it is within 1 degree of being conjunct Mars at 9 degrees of Leo. This is a super-charged full moon with a lot of energy that must be used constructively in some way, as emotions and feelings will be running at an all time high. It has the potential, if the energy is not used constructively, of turning volatile and we will see this energy play out one way or another on the news.

Of course the most important transit that is occurring along with this full moon is the Saturn-Pluto square that is exact through the first 9 days of February,and remains within orb throughout this winter. This transit doesn’t need anything more to set it off, but that is precisely what a full moon will do. Fortunately the full moon in Leo isn’t squaring or opposing this configuration, but it will add a great deal more energy to it, nevertheless.

Saturn squaring Pluto creates situations involving a great deal of frustration in the business world, as well as relationships of all types. It creates delays and points out what our limitations are. I refer to it as a ‘ruthless force, as the energy of Saturn and Pluto create an inability to move forward. it is dangerous and volatile and the world will be a better place when this square passes.

The energy will start to diminish and lighten up some after the first 9 days of February. But, the energy of this transit isn’t gone until it’s gone. The combination is so volatile individually and in the world, the last time we had a hard transit between Saturn and Pluto was in the days preceding 9-11.So, be careful, don’t get too carried away with anything and use the energy to it’s fullest potential.

The highest and best possible use of full moon energy in Leo is to discover the inner child within yourself and finding out what that little voice inside really seeks. In terms of activities, we can all use a little more fun these days, and the fifth house represents children, social activities, restaurants, wherever you go for fun! Good Luck!

So many women say they want closure yet have a hard time finding it. They wonder why they can’t free themselves from thoughts and emotions regarding their exes. They say they don’t want to think about their ex-boyfriend or ex-husband but their minds always seem to drift in that direction. They can’t sleep at night because their exes are on their minds and when they wake up in the morning they remember the dream they had about him while they were sleeping.

Why is closure so elusive for so many women? Could women actually be sabotaging themselves from getting the closure they profess to want so desperately? Or maybe they don’t really want closure but use their need to have it as a way to keep them locked in their obsessive, unproductive thoughts of getting back together with their ex.

Here are some ways that women keep themselves in limbo rather than get closure:

Needing to know: What is he doing right now? Is he hurting? Does he miss me? Does he regret losing me? Does he plan on reuniting with me? Is he happy that it is over? Is he ready to date someone else? Is he ready to sleep with someone else? Has he slept or dated someone else? Does he care about her? Was the sex good? How can he act like nothing is wrong when I am devastated ? Will he ever find someone he loves more than me? Did he actually love me?

What difference does the answer to any of the questions make in your life? These questions are all about HIM, not YOU. No wonder you can’t move on and move forward!!! The answers will not give you closure, because you will only have MORE questions!

Women have wonderful imaginations and are curious by nature. So if we can’t talk to our ex or find out what is going on, we can simply fantasize about it! You can imagine telling him all the horrible things he has done and why he doesn’t deserve to be back with you, you can imagine tears running down his face when he says how sorry he is, you can go over conversations over and over and over again so you know just what to say should you ever see/talk to him. You can picture him miserable, broken down and suffering. The problem is you are living in your imagination too much rather than accepting your reality and dealing with it.

Taking walks down memory lane: While men try to avoid anything that could remind them of their ex, women tend to do the opposite. Women will re-read emails and letters to the point that they have them memorized. That takes them on a literary journey through the relationship they just got out of and re-opens the wounds so they cannot heal. In most cases at times of breakups, women tend to focus on the “shiny happy times” before your ex showed his true colors. We think of all the things we will miss, how the relationship could have worked “If only he ____”, and the pure shame of it all. What women DON’T tend to focus on is the bad side of their ex and all the reasons why it didn’t work out. What they need to realize though is that the signs were probably there from the beginning. Instead of thinking of all the wonderfulness of your ex, think about how much he made you cry, how often you were disappointed, dissatisfied, insecure, angry, hurt, etc.

But don’t dwell on that either because you still won’t get closure. Give yourself ample time to grieve the death of the relationship and then switch your gears to enjoying your LIFE again. You did before he showed up and you can do it now that he is gone.

If you need help obtaining closure from your relationship and seeing if it is time to move on to the next phase of your life, call Lady Sarah or Sophia Elise. During a psychic reading or tarot reading with them, they will be able to see if it is in your best interest to wait it out or move on for good. During your love and relationship reading, Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise will be able to see deep into the heart of your relationship and help you get the answers you need. Talking to friends about our relationship issues is great, but sometimes they dont have the ability to know or understand what is going on beneath the surface. Lady Sarah and Sophia are love, relationship and soulmate experts and they will be able to help you see what to do. A psychic reading or tarot reading with Circle of Goddesses will show you if you truly do need closure and give you advice on how to get it.

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You have come to a fork in the road, what do you do? Choose the path on the left or the one on the right? Wouldn’t it be great if you had someone to help you choose which path to pick? A psychic life coach can do just that for you. A psychic life coach can help you to free yourself of all baggage you have accumulated along your life’s journey. How heavy is your load right now? A psychic life coach can help you shed that unnecessary weight from your shoulders, making you feel stronger and more empowered.

If you feel unfulfilled in your career a psychic life coach can help you get on the right track to success. Why are other people getting promoted and not you? A psychic life coach can help pinpoint the reasons why. A psychic life coach can see what other peoples impression is of you and your work, and help you to change their perception for the better. A psychic life coach can help you unlock your own personal power, instead of letting your roadblocks get in your way.

Some obstacles in our life we put their ourselves and may not even be aware that we are doing it. A psychic life coach can find those obstacles that are keeping you from reaching your goals. You may want to make self-improvements that can assist you in growing spiritually, or help you with personal growth, relationships, communicating with others and finding your niche. A psychic life coach can help you discover ways to help yourself and better yourself and your situation.

Are you facing a financial crisis, career stalemate, problems in relationships, and feel like everything is falling apart. Don’t give up or give in, let a psychic life coach help you find your way out and get things in your life on a positive path. A psychic life coach can help you come up with a plan, a step-by-step method to obtaining the changes you want in your life, and will support you along the way. A psychic life coach is there to give you strength when you need it most.

Would you like to change careers because you are unhappy? A psychic life coach can help you to find the right career for you, and help you find direction. Many people feel as though they want to change careers but have no IDEA what career they should look into. You and your psychic life coach can discover the perfect career for you and then come up with a plan to make it happen.

Has your get up and go got up and left? A psychic life coach can help you get excited about your life again! A psychic life coach will help you get out of the rut you are stuck in and help you to bring things into your life that make you feel motivated again! A psychic life coach does not do the work for you, they give you the tools to help yourself, and those are tools you can use for the rest of your life. If your life has been full of hard knocks, your ego and self-esteem may have taken a considerable beating. Your self-doubt and the fear that comes with it can be keeping you from the things you want most out of life. A psychic life coach can help you to build back your self esteem and ego, so you can take on any challenges, and reap the rewards of the new options you choose.

A psychic life coach can help to identify why the same relationship problems keep happening to you over and over again. Together you can learn the skills you need to either get out of a toxic relationship or fix the one that you are in instead of causing further damage. A psychic life coach can show you the relationship patterns you and your loved one repeat, and how to break the cycle of an unhealthy relationship.

People want change, but often have no idea how to create change. That is where a psychic life coach comes in. You tell your psychic life coach what you want to change, and if it is at all possible, your psychic life coach will show you how to do it. A psychic life coach is convenient because you can talk to them any time or any day by phone. You don’t have to leave your house, pay for gas, all you have to do is wait for the phone to ring. Our psychic life coaches will always respect your privacy, and give you the individual attention that you need. If you look at your future and don’t like what you see, why not let us take a look and see how we can help you help yourself? If you are facing any major decision regarding relationships, career, etc you owe it to yourself to get the support and guidance a psychic life coach can give you.

Psychics Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are able to tap into these energies and see if your love spell will be successful and also determine if this is the right time for the love spell to be performed. Both Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons to the left.