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Love STINKS!!!

Posted by admin on September 24th, 2011

So many people have a negative view of love. When they think of love they think of the pain, misery, betrayal and hurt that comes with it. Their past experiences have made them see love as something they want and something that will also hurt them. Of course there is a risk every time you let someone into your heart, but there are ways to minimize the chances of getting hurt.

Before you open your heart to someone, really take the time to get to know them. Listen to what they say and see if their behavior matches their words. Some subtle hints can really be red flags that you should have paid attention to in the beginning. Make sure if you are making your heart available to someone that they are available to you as well.

If they don’t open up and share feelings or tell you they have a problem doing so, this may not be the right person for you. It’s fine that they love you, but if they don’t ever tell you, that may not be enough for you.

Are they single? If not then they are not available to you right now. Not 100 percent. And you don’t know when they will be. If you are going to go down this path know that this road can be a long and winding one, with no end in sight.

Where do they live? Across the country or the world? This can be a problem too. It is hard enough to live in the same house and keep a relationship going, and it can be just as hard if not harder with someone who is very far away.

If you are smart and take less risky options, you open yourself to better more positive experiences when it comes to love. If you are afraid of unsure, call love psychics, Lady Sarah or Sophia Elise. They can give you insight into your relationship or relationship prospect so you can avoid getting hurt with a soulmate reading, or psychic reading specifically focused on your relationship issues.

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How to “TRAP” a Man

Posted by admin on February 28th, 2010

This article is not about how to trap a man and get him to be yours forever and ever but the ways women often trap men into falling flat on their faces. Quite often women set men up for failure, and then get upset when they (the women) feel hurt, slighted, or unloved. Every woman has the right to feel unloved if the person she is involved with is not showing loving behavior towards her. The problem is, some women attach feeling “unloved” to every little thing.

Now if your boyfriend or husband knows it is your birthday and doesn’t wish you a happy birthday, get you anything, or acknowledge it in any way shape or form, sure, you can feel upset and hurt and rightfully so. BUT, if you told your man not to do anything for your birthday and did not WANT it acknowledged in any way shape or form WHY are you now upset because he didn’t? Sorry, that one is on you. You set him up to hurt you.

Why play games like that where everyone loses? If the man in your life responds to your telephone messages and emails right away, but hates texting and does not respond to texts, WHY ARE YOU INSISTING ON TEXTING HIM? So you can get mad at him? Why force the text issue where there are other ways of communicating? And if that isn’t bad enough, some women have men that are basically good, show loving behavior towards them, treat them well, but the ONE time he doesn’t do what she wants he MUST not love her. Really? Grow up.

People will not always do everything perfect, and you won’t either. Sometimes you have to look at the big picture, not every little thing all by itself. So he screwed up one time. Let it slide unless of course it is a BIG screw-up. If you were the perfect employee and had ONE bad day, would you want your future with the company, your reputation, your bonus, and your pay to be judged on that ONE day? Hell no. You would insist that all your hard work over the years count for something. Well, it is the same in relationships too.

If you ask him stupid questions like “What don’t you like about me?” then you are obviously looking for a fight if you can’t hear the answer and suck it up like an adult. Don’t ask for the truth unless you are ready to hear it and behave like an adult.

If every person could read everyone else’s mind there would BE no relationships. Think about some of the thoughts and feelings that go through your head on a daily basis. What if the people in your life heard them all? Would they hate you right now? Would they even be speaking to you right now? Would you even have a job if your boss heard every thought in your head? Probably NOT.

So, why snoop and read emails he sends to other people? What are you really looking for? If your relationship sucks that bad that you need to find out if he is cheating, checking into things is not so bad. But do you have to read the email he sends his mother or best friend?

The bottom line is that relationships are hard enough, and if you have a good one, be glad you do, and don’t look for ways to cause trouble or ways to sabotage it.

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Is He or She Too Controlling?

Posted by admin on November 4th, 2009

Does the man or woman in your life feel the need to take your decisions out of your hands? Do they constantly give you advice that you didn’t ask for and then get mad at you if you didn’t take it? Do they have to plan everything down to the minutest detail leaving no room for anything spontaneous? Do they feel the need to tell you (actually INSIST is more like it) how you should dress, eat and think? Do they want you to do things only after you have spoken to them first and gotten their approval? Do they get mad at you when you make decisions without consulting them first?

Does the man or woman in your life refuse to accept the word “no” from you and will go on and on and on until they break you down so you finally say yes? Are you no longer allowed to do anything by yourself? Has spending time alone with your friends and family become “not allowed”? Have they distanced themselves (and you) from YOUR family and YOUR friends but you can spend plenty of time with THEIR family and friends? Have they caused riffs between you and your friends and family?

Does it seem like no one in your life can get along with them or meet their approval? Have you been doing less and less of the things YOU like but doing more and more of what THEY like? Have they forgotten to even say please and thank you to you anymore? Do they give you the third degree about what YOU do when they arent around but give little or no details about what THEY do when they aren’t with you? Do they make you feel like part of a team when actually they are the boss?

All these are signs of a relationship where you are being controlled. People that love you do not control you. It’s as simple as that. Of course they will say they only want what is best for you and are the only one who really cares enough to look out for you. They make you feel as if you owe them thanks (and whatever else) for loving you THAT MUCH that they have taken over every aspect of your life. What they are really doing is insulting you.

You were able to live, be happy, have hobbies, likes and dislikes, form opinions, and establish relationships with friends and family before they came along. What they are saying to you is that you did EVERYTHING wrong before they showed up and now are going to fix it THEIR WAY. Eventually everyone being controlled realizes it isn’t based on love but power and insecurity, selfishness or perfectionism.

Can a controlling relationship be changed where each member of the couple has equal say? A psychic love and relationship reading can show you if this is possible, and more. Your love psychic can give you the validation that you are being controlled, because many people don’t even know they are being controlled. Your psychic reading can help you find the steps to take to balance the control in your relationship so it all isn’t one-sided, but equal. Your psychic love reading may also show that this relationship is not salvageable either. Only by getting your own personal psychic reading can you find out how to change your life from being under someones thumb to standing on your own two feet with all of your power back. The person trying to control you won’t change, what they are doing is working for them in the little world they are creating for the two of you. If you want to be an equal partner in your relationship some things are going to have to change, and your love psychic can show you what, and how.

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Mixed Signals…? We Can Help You Un-mix Them and Gain Clarity

Posted by admin on November 4th, 2009

When he or she calls you they seem so happy to hear your voice but then they don’t call for a while. Every time you spend together you both seem to enjoy, but the time you spend is far and few between. When you are together everything seems great, but they seem to sometimes pull away. They haven’t told you they aren’t seeing anyone but you but have implied they don’t want you to see anyone else.

Sometimes you feel like you are in a relationship, sometimes you don’t. That is because you are receiving mixed signals. No wonder you are confused!

A prime example of a mixed signal is when the person talks about your relationship as having a future, then turns around and makes a comment later on about how they arent ready to be in a serious relationship or get married. What are you to think? Do they, or don’t they? How many times have people found themselves in the position where there “friend” of the opposite sex either talks about intimate things or initiates something physical between the two of you? They said they wanted nothing but your friendship, but the way they are acting is saying something else entirely.

Why the mixed signals? Do they know what they want from you or not? Mixed signals can drive a person crazy. You never seem to know where you stand or what the other person is really thinking or feeling? How can a man or woman tell you how attractive you are and compliment you constantly on your looks yet never make a pass at you or act offended when you make one towards them? You thought the signal was clear, but now you are totally confused.

How can you read mixed signals? It can be very difficult, but start by trusting actions more than words. It is easier to lie with words, your reactions and behavior and more difficult to hide. Another great example of mixed signals is when one day they act like they adore you and the next they avoid you like you have cooties. Mixed signals such as that can really make the recipient pissed off along with confused.

A psychic reading can help you read mixed signals correctly. A psychic advisor can differentiate between what signal they are trying to send versus what signal they are trying to hide behind. Learning how to figure out mixed signals can be more difficult than learning a foreign language. Why not leave that to us? A psychic reading can cut through the b.s. and also tell you why this person is sending you mixed signals. Is it because they are playing games with you or for another reason? You don’t want to waste your time with someone who is playing games with you, so why not give one of our psychic advisors the opportunity to help you figure out what these mixed signals really are saying.

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Psychic Life Coach

Posted by admin on October 29th, 2009

You have come to a fork in the road, what do you do? Choose the path on the left or the one on the right? Wouldn’t it be great if you had someone to help you choose which path to pick? A psychic life coach can do just that for you. A psychic life coach can help you to free yourself of all baggage you have accumulated along your life’s journey. How heavy is your load right now? A psychic life coach can help you shed that unnecessary weight from your shoulders, making you feel stronger and more empowered.

If you feel unfulfilled in your career a psychic life coach can help you get on the right track to success. Why are other people getting promoted and not you? A psychic life coach can help pinpoint the reasons why. A psychic life coach can see what other peoples impression is of you and your work, and help you to change their perception for the better. A psychic life coach can help you unlock your own personal power, instead of letting your roadblocks get in your way.

Some obstacles in our life we put their ourselves and may not even be aware that we are doing it. A psychic life coach can find those obstacles that are keeping you from reaching your goals. You may want to make self-improvements that can assist you in growing spiritually, or help you with personal growth, relationships, communicating with others and finding your niche. A psychic life coach can help you discover ways to help yourself and better yourself and your situation.

Are you facing a financial crisis, career stalemate, problems in relationships, and feel like everything is falling apart. Don’t give up or give in, let a psychic life coach help you find your way out and get things in your life on a positive path. A psychic life coach can help you come up with a plan, a step-by-step method to obtaining the changes you want in your life, and will support you along the way. A psychic life coach is there to give you strength when you need it most.

Would you like to change careers because you are unhappy? A psychic life coach can help you to find the right career for you, and help you find direction. Many people feel as though they want to change careers but have no IDEA what career they should look into. You and your psychic life coach can discover the perfect career for you and then come up with a plan to make it happen.

Has your get up and go got up and left? A psychic life coach can help you get excited about your life again! A psychic life coach will help you get out of the rut you are stuck in and help you to bring things into your life that make you feel motivated again! A psychic life coach does not do the work for you, they give you the tools to help yourself, and those are tools you can use for the rest of your life. If your life has been full of hard knocks, your ego and self-esteem may have taken a considerable beating. Your self-doubt and the fear that comes with it can be keeping you from the things you want most out of life. A psychic life coach can help you to build back your self esteem and ego, so you can take on any challenges, and reap the rewards of the new options you choose.

A psychic life coach can help to identify why the same relationship problems keep happening to you over and over again. Together you can learn the skills you need to either get out of a toxic relationship or fix the one that you are in instead of causing further damage. A psychic life coach can show you the relationship patterns you and your loved one repeat, and how to break the cycle of an unhealthy relationship.

People want change, but often have no idea how to create change. That is where a psychic life coach comes in. You tell your psychic life coach what you want to change, and if it is at all possible, your psychic life coach will show you how to do it. A psychic life coach is convenient because you can talk to them any time or any day by phone. You don’t have to leave your house, pay for gas, all you have to do is wait for the phone to ring. Our psychic life coaches will always respect your privacy, and give you the individual attention that you need. If you look at your future and don’t like what you see, why not let us take a look and see how we can help you help yourself? If you are facing any major decision regarding relationships, career, etc you owe it to yourself to get the support and guidance a psychic life coach can give you.

Psychics Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are able to tap into these energies and see if your love spell will be successful and also determine if this is the right time for the love spell to be performed. Both Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons to the left.