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Sometimes we can do energy spells for ourselves, because sometimes things just need a little push.

We live in a sea of living energy that is in constant motion. The candle is our “potential” energy source. Our spirit is our psychic source.

When we combine the energy potential with the psychic energy of our spirit, we create a force that will influence the universe around us.

Remember you have a great responsibility to yourself and to others to use your knowledge in a constructive and healing way. Don’t try to bend the will of others and remember Karma. Keep your intent clear.

Candle magic will not solve your problems overnight but it is a powerful tool. It can also help you to realize that events can be altered and influenced by your own will. We are not helpless bystanders. The candle is used to focus the mind and focus your intent, energy and desire on that thing – whether it be a relationship (with an unnamed person), a new job, a change of living situation – whatever. We are very clear when we say that we should not name the person when you are doing a candle burning for a relationship with a someone when you are not already in a relationship with that person – that is trying to bend the will of another.

I use simple glass jar candles that last for about 7 days in various colors for intent. I place these on a cookie sheet or such (even outside) in case of cracking and let burn.

Do not use broken candles (broken dreams) dirty candles or things that have been used for something else.   And above all keep it simple.

It is always a good idea to get a psychic reading BEFORE doing any type of candle magic or ritual to see if you will receive a positive outcome for your candle work. You can get a psychic reading by phone with either Lady Sarah or Sophia by clicking on their icons on the left hand column.

This is an easy and fun to do love spell to find out if your significant other is trustworthy. It can really be done on any night of the week, although love spells are preferably done on Saturday night. Also the phase of  the moon does not need so much to be taken into consideration, although a waxing moon is really better to BRING love and romance into your life and a waning moon when you are trying to REMOVE something from your life.

Take two nuts, such as pecans or walnus and write your name on one and the name of your true love on the other. Place them in a grate on the fire. Now you must watch… and wait…  If the nuts burn slow and steady it indicates they will be faithful. If the nut pops from the fire and heat, it indicates that they are not to be trusted.

The internet is full of the promise of reuniting lost loves and broken relationships. Spell casters offer a 100% guarantee to put the two of you back together within 3 days. Other sites promise to make him love you forever. Other sites guarantee that with their special love tonic, one drop in your lover’s water will make sure he will never cheat on you. And all of this comes with a pretty high price tag.

Rather than shelling out hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars to a witch or wizard to do a spell for you, you can perform the love spell yourself. And guess what? It is FREE. You don’t have to spend a dime on anything than the materials you need for your spell.  FREE. All it takes is some time and energy. And FREE is a lot better than thousands of dollars.

In addition to a wide variety of books on the love spells, charms and amulets, there are many free love spells available on the internet. These sites offer the details for the spells with directions on how to perform them, the best time to do it and what items you need for the spell. Depending on the deed, you will be able to find the need… in form of a free love spell.

Some of the spells you will find are:

Free love spells to find a Lover

Free love spells to attract a Lover

Free Magick Love Charms

Free love spells to make yourself more attractive

Free love spells to reunite you with a lost love

Free love spells to stop divorce

Free love spells to make him fall in love with you

Free love spells to prevent a breakup

Free love spells to bring you love back to you

Please be very leery of anyone trying to sell you a love spell to reunite you after a breakup. They all offer a 100% guarantee but the only thing guaranteed is that you will lose your money. So many people in their desperation to gain back a lost love have spent so much money on love spells. When someone else does a spell for you, it does not have your energy or essence in it. We have much more power when we do a love spell for ourselves because our very own personal essence and emotion will be put into that love spell. And guess what? Our personal essence and emotion are FREE!

Think of it like this, if you pay Madam Hoohoo $500 to do a love reuniting spell for you how do you know the spell will really be done? They can take your money, tell you they are going to make a wax poppet of both you and your love. They may even ask you for some nails and hair to put into the poppet since that contains your essence. Do you have any nails or hair of your ex lying around? When Madam Hoohoo performs the love spell, if in fact she does it, waves a wand, says hocus pocus and she is done. Where is the emotion? A spell – love spell, money spell, health spell – is really nothing more than energy focused in the direction of something. The materials used to do that spell and the actual exercise itself are a way to create focus. It is the focusing of your energy on something that creates the magick. Energy with emotion is very powerful. Putting your own energy and emotion into a love spell will give it much more zing.

Whenever we do a love spell we need to be very careful not to try and coerce the energy of the other person, the object of our desire. We must always remember that even though we want to be with them more than anything, they do have free will. Whenever we try to manipulate the free will of another we are crossing a line that can bring karmic fallout. So please be careful and consider how you would feel if someone was trying to coerce your free will with a love spell.

So what types of love spells are ok? For example, if you are currently single and would like to attract a love interest into your life, without naming a name, a free love spell could definitely give you an energy boost. Before doing a love spell it is important to check the moon cycle and gather the materials you will need for the spell. Most love spells should be performed when the moon is waxing up until the time it is full. After the full moon, the love spell will not be as effective. A waning moon, the time from the full moon to the next new moon, is a time of release and letting go, a time when were free ourselves of blockages and obstacles. To do a love spell at this time would give the energy of freeing love from you life. That is not what you want to do.  You could perform this love spell on any night of the week, but some circles say that Friday or Saturday night is best.  After you have gathered your items, it is good to cleanse them to make sure they are free of any negative energies or funk attached from anyone else. To clear your materials you can put them outside in the sun for a few minutes or sprinkle them with salt.

Here is a simple FREE LOVE SPELL to attract a love relationship into your life.

·         A piece of paper, preferably parchment paper
·         A pen (not a pencil)
·         A red ribbon
·         Your favorite perfume
·         Your favorite shade of lipstick
·         A pink candle

Get into a quiet and centered place and light the candle. Using the pen and paper list all the qualities you seek in a partner. Even though you may have a specific person in mind for this exercise, it is best not to try and specifically use their characteristics as we can not use magick and love spells to override the free will of another human being. Love spells just don’t work that way. Lightly spritz the paper with your perfume. Roll the paper like a scroll and tie the red ribbon around it. Apply the lipstick and kiss the envelope!! Now sit quietly for a few minutes with the scroll in both hands in front of you and envision yourself happy, peaceful and in love. Hold the image in your mind for as long as you can, focusing on your happiness. When you are finished, put the scroll under your pillow or in a safe place. Don’t untie it or you will break the spell.

This is just one simple of example of a love spell. There are hundreds of free love spells available online. We will be posting other examples of free love spells as well free money spells, free job spells and candle magick on our blog.

Before doing a love spell it is usually a good idea to have a psychic or tarot reading to determine if doing the love spell is in the best and highest good for you. The psychics at the Circle of Goddesses are able to tap into these energies and see if your love spell will be successful and also determine if this is the right time for the love spell to be performed. The psychics from the Circle of Goddesses are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons to the left.

Getting your ex back may not be as easy or as difficult as you may think. Break ups don’t always mean the end of a relationship, but a time for each person involved to take a time out.  During that time out is when you should really take a good look at the relationship you had and determine if you really do want to give it another go. Your ex may share your opinion or have the complete opposite. A reconciliation is only going to happen if both parties agree to get back together.

What can you do if you want your ex back? The first thing you should do is give them a little space from the break up itself. Give their anger (or whatever emotion they may have) a little time to dissipate, just like yours will. The next step is to look at why the break up happened in the first place. Did your ex do something wrong? Did your ex behave in a way that made you feel at the time that breaking up with them was the only answer? What will your ex have to change or do differently (or more) to prevent a future break up? There is no point in focusing on getting back together if you do not resolve the issues that caused the break up in the first place.

Yes, you want your ex back, but will they be back to stay? If you get your ex back can you be sure they won’t repeat the same behavior that caused the break up in the first place? What do you need as reassurance from your ex that it won’t happen again? You have to be realistic, because each fight and break up do damage. Sure, when or if you get your ex back it will be all sunshine and roses at first, but the same problems you had before will show their ugly faces again and cause yet another break up.

What if your ex broke up with you? What if your ex does not want to get back together with you? You need to understand that you cannot force your ex to take you back. If you try you may convince them even MORE that they shouldn’t take you back. You have to look at the reasons they gave you for breaking up in the first place. Rather than defend, for instance, why you are always late and forget to call, ask yourself truthfully if you really CAN stop being late and NOT forget to call. If you can’t, or won’t take the change seriously, don’t bother trying to get your ex back. Unless you can convince your ex that you can and will change you may not get a second chance. Trust me, if you DO get a second chance and do the same things all over again, kiss your third chance goodbye. They will be convinced you will NEVER change and it will be over for good.

Sometimes the things men and women try to get an ex back actually backfires big time. Instead of bringing the ex closer, it makes them run further away! Our psychic readers can tell you what TO do and what NOT to do to get your ex back. Forget about spells that won’t work and are just a waste of your money. Do something that has the greatest chance of success, and your psychic reading can tell you exactly what that is. We will not tell you what you want to here, because not every ex will take you back.

Some will move on to other relationships and leave you behind. You have to find out the truth, either way, so you can do what is best to get your ex back, or let them go and get closure for yourself. Don’t resort to melodramatic tactics that won’t work on your ex. Your ex won’t come back (and if they do by some miracle they won’t stay) because you make them feel guilty. Guilt won’t work. They have to come back because they love you and don’t want to move forward without you. Let us help you get your ex back, or accept that your ex has moved on. It’s time you found out the truth.

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So your guy has broken up with you and now you are a mess and trying to find someone, anyone, to do a spell to make it better; to fix it; to just put the two of you back together. So you peruse the internet looking for lotions and potions delved out by well-meaning, and some not so well meaning witches and wiccans whose websites blast out promises of reuniting you with your lost love.

Guaranteed to reunite lovers within 3-days! 100% Guaranteed!

How the HELL are they going to do that? First of all, as far as LOVE SPELLS go, pretty much need some hair or fingernails of the guy who dumped you, and since he dumped you, you probably don’t have any of that lying around in a jar by the bed… then again, maybe you do. They may ask you to send photos of the two of you so they can bind you together, yeah ok whatever but nothing would be as powerful as HAIR or FINGERNAILS for a LOVE SPELL. It is the essence of that person.

The real point here though is that is it wrong to use magic to manipulate someone if it is against their will. If Billy broke up with you because he really wants to work things out with his wife, and you try to use a love spell to bring him back to you, you are trying to manipulate the energy of the situation. Not only are you wasting your time, and your money if you paid someone to do this for you, but you are creating some bad karma because you will reap some bad mojo for that action and so will the person who did the love spell for you…IF in fact they did it and not just make off with your $$$. There is a law in magick: Harm none! When we try to deliberately coerce someone, through loves spells, ceaseless meditations, candle burnings or energy work, you need to be very sure that you are wiling to accept the responsibility for your actions, and so does your spell caster. If the only way you can get him is by spells and potions, is he really worth having? Probably not. Unless you really want him to be with you forever.

We Can Make Him Fall in Love with You and Bind Him to YOU Forever!

Is that really what you want? What if after a year, more or less, you decide you just don’t want him anymore? What if you hate the way he scratches himself, learn that he is really a slob, has no ambition, and uses your hair pins to clean out his ear wax. You hate the way he chews, belches and farts and now he is bound to you forever! WTF are you going to do now? Get another spell to remove him? Get rid of him? Bind someone else to you? It does not work that way. There is an old saying “Be careful what you WISH for” well guess what, you better damned well be careful what you do a LOVE SPELL for because if these Internet Witches with their “100% guarantees of making him love you forever” are as good as they advertise, forever is a helluva long time. Then again, since you disobeyed the laws of karma, and magick for that matter, by performing this love spell on him, this is pretty much what you deserve.

Once again, if you seek to coerce the one you love through love spells and magick, you are only setting yourself up for a world of hurt later on. It screws with your karma and will send it back to you TIMES 3. And not only to you, but to the idiot that performed the spell for you. Casting spells is never something to be taken lightly. It should not be done for personal gain. So not only will you get the big Universal kick in the ass but so will the one who did the spell for you…and shame on THEM for meddling in the natural flow of the Universe.