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You and your boyfriend, husband, significant other had a fight. A BIG one. Words were said, things were done, and now you are wondering “Is it over?”. “Are we done”? “Can we get passed this”? “Will we get back together?” “How is he feeling about all this?”.

Well, that is where a psychic reading from Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise can clear through all the confusion.

Sometimes, a fight is just a fight, not necessarily the end of the relationship. But sometimes, it is the last straw and the relationship is over forever. What does this fight mean to your relationship?
Not only can psychics Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah tell you if it was just a fight or if it is the end of your love affair but they can also tell you if the fight was really about something else.

Don’t you want to get inside your lovers heart and head and find out how they are feeling and thinking about you after your big blow up? Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah can fill you in.
Do you find you and your partner often fight like this? Is there a way to put a stop to your disagreements and keep them from escalating? Have you tried everything you can think of but the same blow ups keep happening?

Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah are 5-star love psychic who can do a psychic reading, soulmate reading  or tarot card reading on the two of you as a couple. They can see the dysfunctional dynamics and let you know if there are ways to make your relationship happier and stronger. Constant fighting weakens a relationship. There is not enough time in between arguments to heal. When issues are not resolved, they remain, get bigger, and sprout even more issues! Don’t let this keep happening to your relationship. Find out how (or if) you can put a stop to this and get harmony back into your relationship with your own personalized psychic tarot reading, soulmate reading or clairvoyant reading with Lady Sarah or Sophia Elise.

Is your boyfriend or husband pushing the envelope with his bad behavior? Do you wonder why he keeps crossing line after line and is unafraid of the consequences? Do you ask yourself (and others) “Why isn’t he afraid of losing me?”

Well, one answer to that question could be ”Because you have taken all that fear away from him”. Another answer could be “Because he really doesn’t care if he loses you”.

Which one is it?

I am not afraid of losing my newspaper because I could simply go out and buy another one, plus the newspaper is not that important to me. I throw it out at the end of the day. Is that how your boyfriend or husband feels about you? Does he think you are replaceable? Does he give you very little worth in his life? If he does, that is your answer right there. You are not afraid to lose something that holds little or no value to you.

The other answer is more complex. If you have repeatedly led your boyfriend or husband to believe that no matter what he does, says, doesn’t do, or doesn’t say that you are not going anywhere then why should he be afraid of losing you? You convinced him that you will put up with anything he dishes out, so why should he be afraid? If there have been no consequences to his actions, nothing negative happens to him after he does what he does, so of course he will do it again.

Let’s use football as an example. You and your husband agree that on Sunday you both have to get some work done around the house. He promises week after week to do it, yet keeps watching the football game. You get angry week after week, and because these things need to get done, you do it yourself or keep on him that this stuff has to get done.

Let’s look at that from his perspective. There is work he doesn’t want to do. It isn’t fun. Watching the game is. What price does he pay to watch that game and not do the work? Some complaining from you. He decides that is a fair enough price to pay to do what he wants and not what you want him to do. So what do you do? RAISE THE PRICE TO SOMETHING HE CANNOT AFFORD OR IS NOT WILLING TO PAY.

So when you wonder why he isn’t afraid of losing you, ask yourself if you made idle threats. Did you tell him if he continues to do “x” you would end the relationship? Did he continue to do it and you did not end the relationship? If the answer is yes, then why did you threaten him with no follow through? You taught him to call your bluff because you do not mean what you say. Either stop threatening him or learn to follow through. Only then will he take you seriously.

If you are worried or depressed because you feel powerless in your relationship and that your husband or boyfriend is not afraid of losing you, give Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise a call for a psychic love reading or tarot card reading for you and your relationship. They can tell you if your guy just simply doesn’t care enough to be afraid, or if you can do something to make him afraid of losing you.

So many people have a negative view of love. When they think of love they think of the pain, misery, betrayal and hurt that comes with it. Their past experiences have made them see love as something they want and something that will also hurt them. Of course there is a risk every time you let someone into your heart, but there are ways to minimize the chances of getting hurt.

If they don’t open up and share feelings or tell you they have a problem doing so, this may not be the right person for you. It’s fine that they love you, but if they don’t ever tell you, that may not be enough for you.

Are they single? If not then they are not available to you right now. Not 100 percent. And you don’t know when they will be. If you are going to go down this path know that this road can be a long and winding one, with no end in sight.

This article is not about how to trap a man and get him to be yours forever and ever but the ways women often trap men into falling flat on their faces. Quite often women set men up for failure, and then get upset when they (the women) feel hurt, slighted, or unloved. Every woman has the right to feel unloved if the person she is involved with is not showing loving behavior towards her. The problem is, some women attach feeling “unloved” to every little thing.

Now if your boyfriend or husband knows it is your birthday and doesn’t wish you a happy birthday, get you anything, or acknowledge it in any way shape or form, sure, you can feel upset and hurt and rightfully so. BUT, if you told your man not to do anything for your birthday and did not WANT it acknowledged in any way shape or form WHY are you now upset because he didn’t?  Sorry, that one is on you. You set him up to hurt you.

Why play games like that where everyone loses? If the man in your life responds to your telephone messages and emails right away, but hates texting and does not respond to texts, WHY ARE YOU INSISTING ON TEXTING HIM? So you can get mad at him? Why force the text issue where there are other ways of communicating? And if that isn’t bad enough, some women have men that are basically good, show loving behavior towards them, treat them well, but the ONE time he doesn’t do what she wants he MUST not love her. Really? Grow up.

People will not always do everything perfect, and you won’t either. Sometimes you have to look at the big picture, not every little thing all by itself. So he screwed up one time. Let it slide unless of course it is a BIG screw-up. If you were the perfect employee and had ONE bad day, would you want your future with the company, your reputation, your bonus, and your pay to be judged on that ONE day? Hell no. You would insist that all your hard work over the years count for something. Well, it is the same in relationships too.

If you ask him stupid questions like “What don’t you like about me?” then you are obviously looking for a fight if you can’t hear the answer and suck it up like an adult. Don’t ask for the truth unless you are ready to hear it and behave like an adult.

If every person could read everyone else’s mind there would BE no relationships. Think about some of the thoughts and feelings that go through your head on a daily basis. What if the people in your life heard them all? Would they hate you right now? Would they even be speaking to you right now? Would you even have a job if your boss heard every thought in your head? Probably NOT.

So, why snoop and read emails he sends to other people? What are you really looking for? If your relationship sucks that bad that you need to find out if he is cheating, checking into things is not so bad. But do you have to read the email he sends his mother or best friend?

The bottom line is that relationships are hard enough, and if you have a good one, be glad you do, and don’t look for ways to cause trouble or ways to sabotage it.

There are always red flags that we “should have seen”, the problem is, we most often see them way too late. Many people have lost money, possessions, and their hearts to someone they should have seen as suspicious from day one. Of course there are the more obvious red flags which we will discuss first, and then move on to the more elaborate schemes.

1. Finances : Are they asking you too many questions about YOUR financial status?
Your finances on a “need to know basis” – they don’t need to know until you have met numerous times in person, and a solid relationship has evolved. If they brag to you about being wealthy, this is a huge red flag. Wealthy people are very very tight-lipped about their finances! If they are telling you a tale of how they “were on top of the world but then ____ ruined everything” (blaming someone else) this is another red flag to watch out for. Usually they will then talk about how they are on their way back up, and any minute, month or day now they will have it all back again – this is most likely a set-up. They will need YOUR help to get there. (financially of course) They will ask you to loan them money, go into business with them, or pick up the tab on some things til they get the money.

2. Save all emails or chat logs, and pay very close attention to DETAILS. Many times just by listening, you will pick up on discrepancies of things they have told you. Instant red flag! Listen to the way they answer your questions : are they evasive or give general answers with little or no detail? Do they try and change the subject?

3. If they say they love you or feel “connected to you” right away this is also a red flag. Love takes a long time to develop, and although our egos love hearing words like that, they are not true. Love takes time, and if their love is not taking time, you should wonder what the big rush is! Just as quickly as it starts, it will end abruptly.

4. If they want to engage in intimate sex talk right away, another red flag. If they are starting with sexual talk then that is the reason why they are contacting you to begin with, for cyber sex, not a relationship.

5. If they are taking too long to meet you in person, they are most often with someone else, or not interested in a real relationship off the computer or phone. Don’t let yourself get emotionally invested in letters, chats and phone calls. If within the first few times you are on the phone and they want to have phone sex, hang up on them immediately. Get to know the person, the whole person, because you will become infatuated with the crumbs you are getting, not the whole picture.

6. If they are not willing to trade photos, or only send one ask yourself why? Photos are not costly, you can get anyone to scan them for you if you don’t have a scanner, and there is no reason they cannot send you recent photos unless they look nothing like they have described or are using a phony photo.

7. If they want you to get a web cam, 99% of the time it is so they can see you without your clothes. This is not someone you should take seriously.

8. Phone numbers. If you only get a cell phone because they claim to have no home phone, this can also be a red flag. Even though many people have cell phones, very few do NOT have a home phone. If they only call you at certain times, on certain days, or disappear for days, they are most likely living with someone or married. If you try and call during times that you don’t normally speak and you only get their voice mail or are rushed off the phone, another red flag.

9. Do they claim to travel for work and use that excuse as to why you cannot be in contact very often? This is another red flag. they are not traveling for work, they are with someone else. Yes, I know people often travel for work, and a good way to verify they are is to ask them where they are staying, in what city, town, etc. Call the hotel and find out if they are registered. Ask them to pick you up a postcard from the place they are traveling to or ask them to take pictures to show you. If they do nothing of the sort over and over again, most likely they are not traveling, but with someone else

10. Anyone contacting you from overseas should be avoided. Please see our “Nigerian dating scams” page for more information.

Are you wondering about your internet date? Do things seem a little shakey? Are you wondering if they are dating others? Do you want to know if he or she is a player? Does it seem they are just stringing you along with emails and phone calls but not meeting in person? Are they married? How can you possibly know since you only have a voice on the phone or email address! Call one of the psychics at Circle of Goddesses today. Both Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah are experts in relationships and internet dating and are able to bust through any internet dating scam that someone may be throwing at you. Internet dating can be a scary thing and it is better to be forewarned and KNOW what and who you are really dealing with!