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A few women were recently discussing relationships and one was mentioning that her new, less than 6 months old, relationship had numerous issues and problems they couldn’t get past. One woman suggested couples counseling. I was stunned. Other women at the table agreed it might be a good idea. I was more stunned.

Once I picked my jaw off the floor I said “Why not end it?”. The women turned to me and they were stunned.

“Why end it?” one said.

I asked “Why continue when the signs are so obvious and numerous that is not the right relationship?” I went on to explain that dating is a process we are supposed to use to find the right one for us, and if he is not, let him go and keep looking.

Women now seem to find the wrong guy and then try and make him the right guy! This works less than 1% of the time, if that. They waste years and years crying, fighting, and for what?

Is this really less work and more fun than dumping the wrong guy and putting that same effort into finding the right one? Is it really easier to have the same jamoke do that same shit that pissed you off the last 100 times he did it than to try and find someone who won’t do that to you?

Is it more fun to be disappointed when the same promises are broken time and time again as opposed to trying to find someone whose promise is something more than lip service? Is it more entertaining to try and force, mold, and shape someone into what you want them to be (and they fight you every step of the way) than to find someone who is that guy already? Don’t tell me its hard to find the right guy when you aren’t even lookingand instead wasting time with the wrong one. Don’t complain that you don’t want to be alone when you are with someone who makes you feel alone even when they are there. Don’t tell me you can invest time, energy, effort, tears, etc on the wrong guy, but you can’ invest in yourself? Why don’t you stop trying to make dysfunctional, failing relationships work, and instead focus on you. It is better use of your time, resources and energy.

ARE YOU CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP? ARE YOU STRUGGLING TO FIGURE OUT IF IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON OR IF IT IS WORTH FIXING? SOPHIA AND LADY SARAH ARE ABLE TO SEE DEEP INTO THE HEART OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES TO SEE WHERE THEY ARE BROKEN. IF IT IS FIXABLE THEY WILL GIVE YOU THE TOOLS TO FIX IT. IF IT IS BROKEN BEYOND REPAIR THEY WILL HELP YOU MOVE ON. GIVE THEM A CALL TODAY AND STOP WASTING TIME IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS MAKING YOU UNHAPPY! THEY ARE HERE TO HELP!

Allow me to assist you in breaking through the barriers that hold you back from achieving your full potential in life, love, romance, career and business to put you on the right path to success and personal freedom.

I will guide you along your path and provide guidance to help you attain the desires of your heart in matters of love, life and career. I will assist you in finding balance in your spiritual, personal and professional life as well as attain peace of mind and the right path for your future.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Our psychic readers are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.

You have come to a fork in the road, what do you do? Choose the path on the left or the one on the right? Wouldn’t it be great if you had someone to help you choose which path to pick? A psychic life coach can do just that for you. A psychic life coach can help you to free yourself of all baggage you have accumulated along your life’s journey. How heavy is your load right now? A psychic life coach can help you shed that unnecessary weight from your shoulders, making you feel stronger and more empowered.

If you feel unfulfilled in your career a psychic life coach can help you get on the right track to success. Why are other people getting promoted and not you? A psychic life coach can help pinpoint the reasons why. A psychic life coach can see what other peoples impression is of you and your work, and help you to change their perception for the better. A psychic life coach can help you unlock your own personal power, instead of letting your roadblocks get in your way.

Some obstacles in our life we put their ourselves and may not even be aware that we are doing it. A psychic life coach can find those obstacles that are keeping you from reaching your goals. You may want to make self-improvements that can assist you in growing spiritually, or help you with personal growth, relationships, communicating with others and finding your niche. A psychic life coach can help you discover ways to help yourself and better yourself and your situation.

Are you facing a financial crisis, career stalemate, problems in relationships, and feel like everything is falling apart. Don’t give up or give in, let a psychic life coach help you find your way out and get things in your life on a positive path. A psychic life coach can help you come up with a plan, a step-by-step method to obtaining the changes you want in your life, and will support you along the way. A psychic life coach is there to give you strength when you need it most.

Would you like to change careers because you are unhappy? A psychic life coach can help you to find the right career for you, and help you find direction. Many people feel as though they want to change careers but have no IDEA what career they should look into. You and your psychic life coach can discover the perfect career for you and then come up with a plan to make it happen.

Has your get up and go got up and left? A psychic life coach can help you get excited about your life again! A psychic life coach will help you get out of the rut you are stuck in and help you to bring things into your life that make you feel motivated again! A psychic life coach does not do the work for you, they give you the tools to help yourself, and those are tools you can use for the rest of your life. If your life has been full of hard knocks, your ego and self-esteem may have taken a considerable beating. Your self-doubt and the fear that comes with it can be keeping you from the things you want most out of life. A psychic life coach can help you to build back your self esteem and ego, so you can take on any challenges, and reap the rewards of the new options you choose.

A psychic life coach can help to identify why the same relationship problems keep happening to you over and over again. Together you can learn the skills you need to either get out of a toxic relationship or fix the one that you are in instead of causing further damage. A psychic life coach can show you the relationship patterns you and your loved one repeat, and how to break the cycle of an unhealthy relationship.

People want change, but often have no idea how to create change. That is where a psychic life coach comes in. You tell your psychic life coach what you want to change, and if it is at all possible, your psychic life coach will show you how to do it. A psychic life coach is convenient because you can talk to them any time or any day by phone. You don’t have to leave your house, pay for gas, all you have to do is wait for the phone to ring. Our psychic life coaches will always respect your privacy, and give you the individual attention that you need. If you look at your future and don’t like what you see, why not let us take a look and see how we can help you help yourself? If you are facing any major decision regarding relationships, career, etc you owe it to yourself to get the support and guidance a psychic life coach can give you.

The Circle of Goddesses offer live psychic life coaching sessions and  psychic readings by phone at a reasonable price. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

The psychics at the Circle of Goddesses are able to tap into these energies and see if your love spell will be successful and also determine if this is the right time for the love spell to be performed. The psychics from the Circle of Goddesses are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons to the left.

A psychic career reading can help to ease your mind and push you towards the career of your dreams, or warn you to stay put because the timing isn’t right for a career change at this time. Quite often our jobs and careers aren’t satisfying. Sure the money that we make from working pays the bills, but are you feeling that the career field you are presently in isn’t the right match for you anymore? What career should you choose?

A psychic career reading can help you find a more rewarding career. College and tech schools are expensive, you don’t want to waste time and money to go to school only to find out you picked the wrong career and end up miserable. Find out with a psychic career reading if you are on the right career path! No one wants to waste their time or money getting a degree that they won’t use.

How easy will it be for you to find a job once you graduate? Your psychic career reading can reveal if you will get a job shortly upon graduation, or if you will be faced without an income for a long period of time. You could be pursing a career that will give you financial rewards and prestige but what if you hate going to work everyday? Of course most people don’t like something about their job, but do you want to be one of those people that HATES their job?

Money isn’t everything, and although you may be getting paid well, you may feel that you wish you never got into your career in the first place. A psychic career reading can give you the assurance you need that you are making the right career decisions.

You could be having problems with a co-worker or superior and are afraid of getting fired from your job. What if that co-worker or superior has it in for you for some reason and is sabotaging you behind your back? A psychic career reading can find out if you have any hidden enemies at the workplace. A psychic career reading can also warn you if you may be fired or laid off, and if there is anything you can do to prevent it. Don’t wait until it is too late, call a psychic and get a career reading now!

Your psychic career reading can reveal that the co-worker, boss or superior that is so negative towards you may actually be changing jobs or careers themselves. Why should you quit because of them only to find out that they left or were fired? You could have stayed and been happy if you only waited it out. If you would have gotten a psychic career reading you would have stayed, and been rid of the person that was making your job or career so unpleasant.

Very few people like to changes jobs and switch careers, most people want to find a job that they can stay with. Let one of our psychics help you find that job.

Are you planning on starting a new business with or without a partner or investor? A psychic career reading can tell you if your new business will be a success or if it will be a failure. It is very difficult for new businesses to suceed, most businesses do not make it. Our psychic readers can help you by offering ways to help you succeed and warn you of any mistakes you may make. You  may think your partner is as committed to this new business as you are. But what if they are not? Don’t you need to make sure that the partnership you are entering into will be a good one? You need to be aware before it is too late if this partner or investor will be good for your business, or bad for it. A psychic career reading can alleviate your fears, help you to stay on track, and help guide you to career success!

The psychics from the Circle of Goddesses are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

I will guide you along your path and provide guidance to help you attain the desires of your heart in matters of love, life and career. I will assist you in finding balance in your spiritual, personal and professional life as well as attain peace of mind and the right path for your future.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Our psychic readers are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.

Getting your ex back may not be as easy or as difficult as you may think. Break ups don’t always mean the end of a relationship, but a time for each person involved to take a time out.  During that time out is when you should really take a good look at the relationship you had and determine if you really do want to give it another go. Your ex may share your opinion or have the complete opposite. A reconciliation is only going to happen if both parties agree to get back together.

What can you do if you want your ex back? The first thing you should do is give them a little space from the break up itself. Give their anger (or whatever emotion they may have) a little time to dissipate, just like yours will. The next step is to look at why the break up happened in the first place. Did your ex do something wrong? Did your ex behave in a way that made you feel at the time that breaking up with them was the only answer? What will your ex have to change or do differently (or more) to prevent a future break up? There is no point in focusing on getting back together if you do not resolve the issues that caused the break up in the first place.

Yes, you want your ex back, but will they be back to stay? If you get your ex back can you be sure they won’t repeat the same behavior that caused the break up in the first place? What do you need as reassurance from your ex that it won’t happen again? You have to be realistic, because each fight and break up do damage. Sure, when or if you get your ex back it will be all sunshine and roses at first, but the same problems you had before will show their ugly faces again and cause yet another break up.

What if your ex broke up with you? What if your ex does not want to get back together with you? You need to understand that you cannot force your ex to take you back. If you try you may convince them even MORE that they shouldn’t take you back. You have to look at the reasons they gave you for breaking up in the first place. Rather than defend, for instance, why you are always late and forget to call, ask yourself truthfully if you really CAN stop being late and NOT forget to call. If you can’t, or won’t take the change seriously, don’t bother trying to get your ex back. Unless you can convince your ex that you can and will change you may not get a second chance. Trust me, if you DO get a second chance and do the same things all over again, kiss your third chance goodbye. They will be convinced you will NEVER change and it will be over for good.

Sometimes the things men and women try to get an ex back actually backfires big time. Instead of bringing the ex closer, it makes them run further away! Our psychic readers can tell you what TO do and what NOT to do to get your ex back. Forget about spells that won’t work and are just a waste of your money. Do something that has the greatest chance of success, and your psychic reading can tell you exactly what that is. We will not tell you what you want to here, because not every ex will take you back.

Some will move on to other relationships and leave you behind. You have to find out the truth, either way, so you can do what is best to get your ex back, or let them go and get closure for yourself. Don’t resort to melodramatic tactics that won’t work on your ex. Your ex won’t come back (and if they do by some miracle they won’t stay) because you make them feel guilty. Guilt won’t work. They have to come back because they love you and don’t want to move forward without you. Let us help you get your ex back, or accept that your ex has moved on. It’s time you found out the truth.

The psychics from the Circle of Goddesses are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

Allow me to assist you in breaking through the barriers that hold you back from achieving your full potential in life, love, romance, career and business to put you on the right path to success and personal freedom.

I will guide you along your path and provide guidance to help you attain the desires of your heart in matters of love, life and career. I will assist you in finding balance in your spiritual, personal and professional life as well as attain peace of mind and the right path for your future.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Our psychic readers are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.

All relationships are different.  They are as unique as the two individuals that define them.  Some couples are married, some have an open relationship, some are simply sexual partners with no strings attached, yet each is considered a relationship. Too many people overuse the term relationship to describe the status between themselves and the person they love. Time and again, frustrated clients ask:

• When are we going to be in a committed relationship?
• When will we take our relationship to the next level?

Our questions back to you are:

• If you wanted to be in a committed relationship, why aren’t you?
• Is your partner against committed relationships or not ready for one?
  
• Have you even discussed commitment with them?
• Are you waiting for the “commitment fairy” to fly down and grant you your wish?

The answers to these questions, and more, should be discussed while you are dating. Often we find the term “relationship” is used too loosely and quickly when people first start going out. When you first meet someone and start going out socially with them, you are dating. Period. The dating phase is there for a reason: to discover BEFORE you invest yourself emotionally and psychologically whether or not they are looking for the same things you are. Oscar Hammerstein nailed it in lyrics for his musical “The King and I”: “Getting to know you, getting to know all about you….”  It is during this important dating phase that you are getting to know someone to determine if they will be a good relationship choice for YOU.

Dating is the process of discovering if the person you are “dating” is relationship material. Use this time wisely, and honestly (in other words, don’t kid yourself) to see if this person really is a good prospect for what you are looking for relationship-wise. Now is the time to talk, listen, observe, learn and watch. Listen to what your partner says. Does it match their actions? Listen to what they say then let time and facts prove what they are saying to be truth. Make someone EARN your TRUST. Trust is not something to be given away freely, it should be earned, and if your partner is serious about growing the relationship with you, they will jump hurdles to ensure you trust them.

Be honest and open; let your partner know what you want out of life, relationships, love and sex. This is the time to express your needs and expectations as well as what factors would cause you to end the relationship. These important issues should be discussed during the dating phase, even more than you discuss favorite music, movies and restaurants. Obviously the first words on a first date should not be “Are you ready to get married?” but it should be more than acceptable to ask them what they are looking for.

Of course people can lie to you and they will, or they can “think” they are ready for a relationship when they are not. You will be much better off in the long haul if you find out what you need to know in the beginning. Ask the right questions in the early stages, such as:

• Are you looking for a relationship?
• What does being in a relationship mean to you?
  
• What do you expect out of a relationship, and what can someone expect out of YOU?
• When would you consider monogamy appropriate?
  
• How long would you need to be with someone before you would consider yourself in a relationship?
  
• How long would you need to date someone before you would consider being monogamous?
  
• What about your past relationships do you miss?
  
• What have you learned from your past relationships?
  
• What about your past relationships do you never want to go through again?

Obviously you won’t want to drill someone with all these questions in the first hour of meeting them, and probably not all on the first date, but these questions are more important than knowing where the person went to high school, their favorite song or color, or what kind of car they drive. These are the “road signs” of what to reasonably expect from them if you decide to take the relationship “journey” with them. Keep in mind while this person is sharing their thoughts on the subject, it is your opportunity to speak up to let THEM know what your feelings are so they know what to expect from YOU.

Often during the dating phase, things start to deteriorate. One or both parties will say “It was so good in the beginning; we must be going through a rough patch”.  Why does the rough patch sometimes seem to last longer than the good times? The answer is simply… because the first few months are always the best. Everyone is on their best behavior. As people become comfortable with each other, they let their guard down, and start acting more naturally. So the experience is what it is like to DATE that person for a few months, NOT what it WOULD be like to be in a relationship with them. Big difference.

Many people don’t know when it is time to bail and continue to hold on to the good times waiting for them to return. They don’t. They won’t. Accept it and move on. No one can maintain their “best behavior” for longer than several months. It is difficult and exhausting to maintain the façade. The masks crumble and the true personalities and behaviors are exposed… now THIS is the REAL person. This is who you will have the relationship with. It will never be the same as it was in the beginning. It is just not possible. Cut your losses and move on.

To really KNOW someone you should date regularly for about NINE MONTHS – yes NINE. It does not matter how much you talk on the phone until all hours of the morning, how great the sex is, how wonderful he makes you feel, how intense the connection is or whether both of your grandmothers have the exact same name and birthday… it still takes nine months. After all, that is how long it takes to make a baby, so why should a relationship with someone you want to spend the rest of your life with take any less? It shouldn’t.

Many people operate under the wrong assumption that because they have sex with someone it automatically advances them to relationship status. WRONG! It takes time and patience which unfortunately the majority of people are not willing to invest. In today’s world of instant gratification, largely a byproduct of the internet, many people are looking for “instant relationships”. Remember, there are NO INSTANT RELATIONSHIPS and if you find yourself following this wrong way of thinking, we guarantee it will ultimately bring frustration and heartache.

So many people have sex with someone in the early stages of the dating game and invariably find themselves wondering:

• Is s/he sleeping with anyone else?
  
• Are we exclusive?

The real question, however, is why are you asking yourself this question? You should have asked the person you slept with, during the DATING process…and definitely before sleeping with them.

When a couple has dated long enough – yep, that is NINE MONTHS folks – and decided to be exclusive, they are officially IN a relationship. But where is the relationship going? Will it stay exactly as it is…just an exclusive relationship? Will you co-habitate? Will there be an engagement followed by marriage?

Many people want the relationship to go in one direction but their partner is fine where it is. Now we have two people wanting two different things, each trying to convince the other their way is best. Well, ONE of you is going to LOSE. Now is the time to find out if the relationship is going somewhere, or nowhere. You need to determine if it is going where YOU want it to go and you need to find out NOW rather than waste any more of your precious time. If you want to stay with someone knowing they will never live with you, marry you, have children with you or be committed only to you – that is fine. It is YOUR choice. It is time you made that choice based on REALITY rather than making choices based on your FANTASIES of what could be.

Let us help guide you through the relationship phase so it ends up in the place you want it to be. Let us help you get out of a relationship that is never going to go your way. Isn’t it time you faced the truth?

The psychics from the Circle of Goddesses are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

Allow me to assist you in breaking through the barriers that hold you back from achieving your full potential in life, love, romance, career and business to put you on the right path to success and personal freedom.

I will guide you along your path and provide guidance to help you attain the desires of your heart in matters of love, life and career. I will assist you in finding balance in your spiritual, personal and professional life as well as attain peace of mind and the right path for your future.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Our psychic readers are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.