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A few women were recently discussing relationships and one was mentioning that her new, less than 6 months old, relationship had numerous issues and problems they couldn’t get past. One woman suggested couples counseling. I was stunned. Other women at the table agreed it might be a good idea. I was more stunned.

Once I picked my jaw off the floor I said “Why not end it?”. The women turned to me and they were stunned.

“Why end it?” one said.

I asked “Why continue when the signs are so obvious and numerous that is not the right relationship?” I went on to explain that dating is a process we are supposed to use to find the right one for us, and if he is not, let him go and keep looking.

Women now seem to find the wrong guy and then try and make him the right guy! This works less than 1% of the time, if that. They waste years and years crying, fighting, and for what?

Is this really less work and more fun than dumping the wrong guy and putting that same effort into finding the right one? Is it really easier to have the same jamoke do that same shit that pissed you off the last 100 times he did it than to try and find someone who won’t do that to you?

Is it more fun to be disappointed when the same promises are broken time and time again as opposed to trying to find someone whose promise is something more than lip service? Is it more entertaining to try and force, mold, and shape someone into what you want them to be (and they fight you every step of the way) than to find someone who is that guy already? Don’t tell me its hard to find the right guy when you aren’t even lookingand instead wasting time with the wrong one. Don’t complain that you don’t want to be alone when you are with someone who makes you feel alone even when they are there. Don’t tell me you can invest time, energy, effort, tears, etc on the wrong guy, but you can’ invest in yourself? Why don’t you stop trying to make dysfunctional, failing relationships work, and instead focus on you. It is better use of your time, resources and energy.

ARE YOU CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP? ARE YOU STRUGGLING TO FIGURE OUT IF IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON OR IF IT IS WORTH FIXING? SOPHIA AND LADY SARAH ARE ABLE TO SEE DEEP INTO THE HEART OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES TO SEE WHERE THEY ARE BROKEN. IF IT IS FIXABLE THEY WILL GIVE YOU THE TOOLS TO FIX IT. IF IT IS BROKEN BEYOND REPAIR THEY WILL HELP YOU MOVE ON. GIVE THEM A CALL TODAY AND STOP WASTING TIME IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS MAKING YOU UNHAPPY! THEY ARE HERE TO HELP!

Allow me to assist you in breaking through the barriers that hold you back from achieving your full potential in life, love, romance, career and business to put you on the right path to success and personal freedom.

I will guide you along your path and provide guidance to help you attain the desires of your heart in matters of love, life and career. I will assist you in finding balance in your spiritual, personal and professional life as well as attain peace of mind and the right path for your future.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Our psychic readers are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.

People call psychics to find answers to questions about work, career, family or finances. But let’s face it, most people make the decision to call a psychic to find clarity in their love relationships. They want answers only a psychic love reading can provide. During a psychic love reading, a love and relationship psychic advisor can tell you where your current relationship is heading, if your partner is cheating or if they are returning after a break up.

A psychic love reading will be able to tell you where your current relationship is headed. If you have been seeing someone for some time, our love and relationship psychics will be able to tell you if this relationship is one that will move into commitment or marriage, if you will have children and so on. A love and relationship reading will also be able to point out any red flags or problems and our psychics will let you know those before they occur so you are prepared and head them off before they become an issue.

A psychic love reading can help you see your relationship from a different perspective. During a psychic love reading your love and relationship psychic will connect not only to your energy, but to the energy of your loved one to see the connection between you. During a psychic love reading, you will be able to assess the barriers that are preventing your current relationship from becoming the relationship you not only desire but deserve. By working closely with your love and relationship psychic during your psychic love reading you can identify the blockages that are holding you back.

A psychic love reading will be able to identify not only surface problems in your relationship, but those that go much deeper, perhaps creating the fear of intimacy preventing your partner from moving forward. A good love and relationship psychic will be able to give you guidance and advice to assist you in breaking past some of these issues.

Many people call for a psychic love reading when they have recently broken up with their partner and want to know if there will be a reconciliation. During the love and relationship reading your psychic will be able to look into the future so you know whether or not your love interest is returning or if it is truly over. If they are returning, a good love and relationship psychic will provide coaching and guidance on what steps you can take to ensure there is not another breakup.

Often during a psychic love reading your love psychic will be able to see and understand the reasons for the breakup. There will be the reasons that were presented to you on the surface by your partner, but very often the real reasons for the breakup are hidden. A psychic love reading will be able to unlock the mystery behind the breakup so you can be fully aware of what happened. For example, your partner may tell you the reasons for ending the relationship are because he wishes to spend more time learning how to weave baskets as it is a life long dream of his. During your psychic love reading, however, your psychic is able to see the real reason for the breakup is because he is insecure due a bad relationship experience in the past. Once you know and understand the truth behind the breakup, and there is a chance for a reconciliation, your love and relationship psychic will be able to outline specific steps to work through their issues.

Even though you may want to get back together with your ex and have been hoping for that to happen sometimes it is just not in the cards for the two of you. A psychic love reading will show whether or not the relationship will come back together A psychic love reading will reveal if it is time to move on. If your love and relationship psychic sees that the relationship has come to and end, they will tell you during your psychic love reading. Our psychics will not keep you stuck in a hopeless situation hoping for change nor will they give you a fairy tale ending if there is not one. If the relationship between you and your ex looks as if it has reached its final closure, your love psychic will tell you the truth.

Many people call a love and relationship psychic to see if their partner is cheating on them. During a psychic love reading, your psychic will be able to see if they have cheated in the past, if they are cheating now or if they plan on cheating in the future. During your psychic love reading your psychic will be able to provide guidance on how to deal with the cheating issue so you can address it from a place of empowerment and control.

Sometimes we have found ourselves walking the solo path for quite some time and wonder if we will ever find ourselves in a romantic situation again. A psychic love reading will reveal if there is someone new coming in to your life. A psychic love reading will tell you if this new person will be there for a season or for the long haul. Our love and relationship psychics will give you the guidance you need to find the man or woman who would make a good partner for you.h

The psychics from the Circle of Goddesses are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

I will guide you along your path and provide guidance to help you attain the desires of your heart in matters of love, life and career. I will assist you in finding balance in your spiritual, personal and professional life as well as attain peace of mind and the right path for your future.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Our psychic readers are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.

You and your boyfriend or girlfriend just broke up and you are an emotional mess. Your emotions are all over the place and you can’t even think or see straight. Now is NOT the time for action, but to get your shit together FIRST. It’s time to calm the hell down and make some decisions. Do you REALLY want it over with this person, or do you want to get back together with them? Do you really want this break up to be permanent?

If you do want them back, then THINK before you act. Don’t make matters worse by calling him or her 8 zillion times (or texting) and either crying like a hysterical nut job or cursing them out and arguing with them. Like that behavior is going to win them back anyway?  Uh, NO. All you are doing is making a bad situation WORSE. Is that really want you want to do? Yes, you may hope he slams his testicles in his car door or she starts losing her hair but try keeping those thoughts to yourself, ok? Sharing them isn’t really helping. You may want to take all those hateful words back at a certain point, but the one you want to get back with is going to remember them. ALL OF THEM.

Going to their house and demanding they speak to you isn’t good either, it’s acting out. Who wants to get back together with an acter-outer? Wait until things have cooled down after the break up and plan some smart moves instead of ones that make you look either desperate or unattractive.

Don’t stalk your ex after a break up. Stop focusing on what THEY are doing and do something for yourself. Concentrate on getting your head on straight and doing things to boost your self esteem.

Really look at the break up objectively. Whose fault or decision was it to break up in the first place? Look at the reasons that were given for the break up? Were they valid? Did you do anything wrong or was it their fault? Sure, you want to get back together but are they (or you) willing to not screw up again? If not, you are only going to break up again! Think about your behaviors and look for ways to fix the problems, not create MORE.

It is very hard when you are emotionally distraught to do or say productive things, so avoid your ex until you can be productive. Why not call a psychic advisor and get a reading on your break up? Before you make things worse your psychic advisor can help calm you down and give you a realistic idea of what your ex is thinking and feeling right now, and if there is a chance for the two of you to reconcile. Don’t focus on the WHEN WHEN WHEN will we be back together but the HOW you will get back together and the WHY this break up happened in the first place. Our psychics are here to help you FIX your relationship so these break ups will no longer occur. Why not call for a psychic reading before you make it impossible to fix your broken relationship? If you want to get them back, we can help you get them back. Now breathe, calm down, and give us a call.

The psychics from the Circle of Goddesses are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

I will guide you along your path and provide guidance to help you attain the desires of your heart in matters of love, life and career. I will assist you in finding balance in your spiritual, personal and professional life as well as attain peace of mind and the right path for your future.

Allow me to assist you in breaking through the barriers that hold you back from achieving your full potential in life, love, romance, career and business to put you on the right path to success and personal freedom.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Our psychic readers are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.